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Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Attorney Valerie Houghton and Terry Houghton Criminal Prosecution Santa Clara County: Fraud Investigation Report
Controversial family law attorney Valerie Houghton has been under criminal indictment since 2016.
Valerie Houghton knew that my ex was letting an older man molest my son. Although Ms. Houghton is a mandated reporter, she didn't do anything to protect my son. I was instead cut out of his life with a restraining order. I asked Judge Towery to tell my why a restraining order was issued. He could not give me an answer of any kind. https://copblaster.com/blast/34409/judge-james-e-towery-sex-trafficked-all-of-my-children
I wanted to protect my children so I asked Judge Towery to recuse himself from my case. He previously employed Ms. Houghton at his former law firm. The statue dictates that he was compelled to do so, but he refused my request. I was forced to file a lawsuit in the Northern District of California. Now I am being retaliated against.
My youngest daughter (that I have with a different mother) is in the custody of a man who previously drugged and raped a teen. Judge Towery simply doesn't care. He wants to have me made out as crazy because of the conduct that I have alleged. The mother, herself, knows of the danger of letting him legal rights to our daughter. She came to court and AGREED that I should establish paternity. But before we could sign said stipulation, we were rushed into the courtroom and my motion was DENIED.
Valerie knew exactly what she was doing. After she secured $80,000 from the information that my ex was letting someone molest our son, Ms. Houghton said that the kids would be "finished" without me.
My son is now an adult, so I was recently able to see him. After he confirmed that he had been molested, I urged him to report it to the police. A week and a half later Judge Towery filed an order on his own accord. There was no hearing and no one petitioned the court. The order prevented me from contacting my son without supervised visitation.
I read the above "Reign of Terror" document above. It is spot on. The only thing missing is that Ms. Houghton also poisons. She did so after I complained. You would think that dropping the complaints would be enough to stop the assaults. There was a period that Ms. Houghton didn't even have any demands. She just did it because she could.
Valerie doesn't know what it means to take responsibility. She says that she "lost a lot of business" because I complained. She doesn't think correlate the lost business to extortion, fraud, poisoning, or letting my son get molested. It had to be all my fault, so she continued to take my health.
You can see in the screenshots of her former website that she touts Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR). That had to be the biggest irony of all. The first complaints that I made were done discreetly and directly to her. Valerie never once responded. She did, however, send people to hack, threaten, and harass me. Later, as I escalated the complaints, she had me poisoned.
You can never expect to have any issues resolved with Valerie. She makes unreasonable and sadistic demands - and you are expected to comply.
There is always a joke involved. She finds all the inflicted misery to be funny. I think that is Ms. Houghton's biggest issue. If she were able to put herself in someone else's shoes, she would never do any of it.
Valerie compared my kids to "ATM machines" during a meeting with her. I think that it was more than money. She didn't have to give my ex sole custody. There has always been a sadistic element when dealing with her. She could have done it a million different ways, but she chose the most sinister of outcomes.
The fact that she forced my youngest daughter to be under the legal custody of a rapist - only proves it. The other mother even didn't want it that way.
Valerie Houghton is a punishing person. I was threatened on multiple occasions with incarceration while I was going through my divorce. What was it that I did that was so bad? Was it leaving my ex-wife? Was it telling Ms. Houghton to protect my son? Was it not wanting to pay Ms. Houghton any more of her cash demands?
What was it that I did to deserve all the poisonings? Who is she to demand that two parents let a rapist have legal custody of their daughter?
None of this is my fault. Valerie wants to put all the blame on me. She had the obligation to protect my son. All my pleas for help fell on deaf ears. She was only interested in the money.
I was not even allowed to talk to my son about it during supervised visitation. You could see the pain on his face, but I was told that I just being "neurotic".
She had all of the control, yet she takes none of the responsibility.
Here are the expectations once you retain Houghton:
1. Do whatever you are told. This does not mean that you won't be punished. The misery inflicted will, however, be mitigated by compliance.
2. Always pay what Ms. Houghton demands. I believe that I was double or triple billed, but I cannot say for certain because she verbally demanded amounts. (see #1)
3. Never fire Ms. Houghton for any reason. (see #1)
4. Never complain about Ms. Houghton for any reason. (see #1)
Poisoning a person is particularly sadistic. Different poisons do different things. It also allows for more repetition over time, compared to using a gun or knife.
Valerie is not only a therapist and attorney, but also a registered nurse that used to specialize in medical malpractice. She can strip away your health with ease.
It is easier to deal with someone who is more overt with their aggression. Avoiding overt aggression is more straight forward. There will never be an issue of detection. Also, someone with a gun or knife won't toy with you.
You are not a human being to Valerie. Maybe she has the therapist credential to falsely show otherwise.
The restraining order the prevented me from contacting the kids dictated that I would only see them if "mother agreed". I worked with kids for a living.It became painful to be around other kids after being cut off from my own.
I ended up being homeless and found a job at a warehouse. I asked for a reduction in child support. Not only was the request denied, but my support was actually increased. I was left with roughly $300 a month after taxes and support.
I didn't even have enough money to eat. Food stamp eligibility is calculated without child support obligations. I had to use food pantries just to eat enough. It has been that way for almost four years.
There is not really a way out once Valerie is retained. She won't ever let go. There is too much in it for her.
If you try to back out, she will play the other party against you and punish you. Punishment consists of sanctions, arrests, harassment, loss of visitation, and even poisoning.
If Houghton operated in any other context, you would have some type of recourse.
I feel bad for any of her current and past clients. I feel sorrow for all of the children.
Valerie doesn't see her infliction of misery as wrong. She views herself as superior and entitled to make any orders. You lose your freedom to make basic choices. You are not even allowed to decide whether or not your children are sexually abused.
Valerie is like a god. If you disobey her, she can take your health, children, or ability to shelter yourself.
She destroys the moral fabric of society. Valerie is just one person, but her misery is spread exponentially.
There is a high probability that my children will also be abusers. Many turn their heads in the other direction, but fail to acknowledge how Ms. Houghton's misconduct potentially affects their own children and grandchildren.
She in effect normalizes the sexual abuse of children. All of my complaints fall on deaf ears. People are becoming numb to it.
All the judges, attorneys, and leaders who have heard my complaints will be less likely to protect children.
Valerie is completely selfish. It didn't matter that my son was being molested. She wanted $80,000 placed into trust. Then she concealed the abuse. All that did was allow the abuse to continue. I guess that was better than an open-shut divorce.
Now she wants to save face. She wants to have me made out to be crazy. Valerie doesn't care that she is throwing my daughter under the bus to do it.
It is difficult to know that Valerie is behind everything. I only know because I have been dealing with her for 7 years. Everything she does is indirect and with trickery.
She will hack you if she is on your case. It doesn't matter who was the one who hired her. Knowledge is king. She will use any information to maximize her leverage and profit. Make sure to periodically do a DFU restore on your phone. Never open attachments or have WiFi on. Also never leave your phone unattended.
Periodically change all your passwords. Never use the same one across devices and accounts.
Valerie will use your friends, family and co-workers to her advantage. Stop using social media. She will use it for data mining.
It's a joke really. She poisons, stalks, and hacks her clients. Valerie is a "family counselor" that separates children from good parents and lets the kids get sexually abused.
I've posted this all over the internet. I know that Valerie has previously sued Erika Torres and some other people because they falsely claimed that she stole about $2000.
All of these postings probably don't help Ms. Houghton's business aspirations. If all of this information is false, it would make sense for Ms. Houghton to also sue me.
technically Ms. Houghton broke the law when she let my son get molested. Beside being a mandated reporter of child abuse, Ms. Houghton used the legal system to sex traffic my children. California penal code 236.1 dictates that it is illegal to use a legal proceeding to facilitate an improper sexual encounter with a minor.
(a) A person who deprives or violates the personal liberty of another with the intent to obtain forced labor or services, is guilty of human trafficking and shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison..
(1) Coercion includes a scheme, plan, or pattern intended to cause a person to believe that failure to perform an act would result in serious harm to or physical restraint against any person; the abuse or threatened abuse of the legal process; debt bondage; or providing and facilitating the possession of a controlled substance to a person with the intent to impair the persons judgment.
(2) Commercial sex act means sexual conduct on account of which anything of value is given or received by a person.
All you need to know about Valerie is that she operates on misery. If you don't comply with her demands, she will just pile it on. She uses harassment, blackmail, threats, incarnation, and access to your children to put on the pressure. The arsenal included poison for me, but I am not sure if that is reserved for only someone that complains. Either way you are dealing with someone who doesn't take no for an answer.
I never understood why it is national policy to not negotiate with terrorists until now. Once you give in to something, it is like throwing gasoline into the fire. It is a never ending cycle of demands and expectations for strict compliance.
There really is no way to win. She can hurt you in many different ways, including financially and through access to your children.
The trick is to catch on. If you are working with her, everything is a given. It is just that she operates in an indirect manner. You won't realize that you have been hacked or are being followed. You also might not realize that she is coordinating with all the attorneys.
She has nothing to offer anyone. I didn't get anything for the $30,000 that I paid my attorneys except a loss of health, poverty, and my children abused. I paid all of the monies in cash as DEMANDED by Valerie.
She ruined my life. If that wasn't enough, Valerie demands not only an apology, but she wants me declared mentally insane.
Her low empathy borders on lunacy. She does not care if you live in car, your organs damaged, and your children raped. As long as she gets what she wants, that is all that matters.
There is nothing sacred to Valerie Houghton. She SOLD my kids knowing that they were being sexually abused. That's all it was to her: a sale, like buying something at the store.
Then there was the taking of my health after I complained. She had already made me destitute. Valerie knew that there was not much more that she could do to me.
She didn't care that the damage was permanent. Ms. Houghton is capable of doing anything to get the outcome that she wants. There is never any consideration for the suffering of another.
She also doesn't consider the morality of her actions. Society frown on children getting raped, but that didn't stop her from giving my daughter to a rapist. Valerie didn't even care that the mother AGREED that I should establish paternity. What she did was akin to kidnapping a random child of the street and selling the child for her purposes.
The truth doesn't matter. She gets to decide both fate and reality. All the rest is minutia.
What kind of a person doesn't understand that parents want to protect their children?
I don't think that violence should occur outside of self defense, but I can sort of understand that Valerie felt pressure after I complained. The misconduct was hard, if not impossible, to deny.
BUT ALL THE COMPLAINTS ARE NOW GONE.
WHY CAN'T VALERIE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE TO PROTECT MY KIDS?
Valerie covertly embeds herself into your life. She will destroys everything in her wake. It is all a game to her. Your children's well-being mean nothing to her. She will systematically destroy them, while forcing you to watch. Then she will threaten them to keep them quiet. Anyone who opens their mouth will be annihilated. Valerie runs the show. By the time that you realize what is happening, you will have ZERO leverage to do anything.
The only way out is to move far away, change your number, and stay anonymous. I never thought that I would write such things, but she is a true sociopath with quite unlimited power.
Don't ever complain. Never show her anger. Those are things that will set her off. If you are in a custody dispute, weigh your options carefully, while understanding that it will not end until your children are adults.
You may think that all of this is an exaggeration. I would have, myself, 7 years ago. Take it all seriously. Learn from it. Try to get away. What you might think is impossible, is something that she is capable of achieving. Drugging, poisoning, crazy orders, and even taking a child from two parents who are on good terms - are all things that are achievable for her.
Always remember. The key is realizing what is going on. If she is on your case, most of what is on these posts will occur covertly. I forgot to mention jail in the post just prior. You might have never been in trouble before you met Ms. Houghton. It will all come as a shock that arrests might begin to occur. She has her ways.
She won't take no for an answer. Valerie is stubborn as hell and gets whatever she wants. Forget about what is normal. That just doesn't apply once you deal with her. Her and her team will stalk you until they figure out a way to get it done. You can no longer trust anyone around you. It is like being in a horror movie.
I think that the only people who succeed are the ones who move far, far away. You have to disappear. Put the utilities in someone else's name. Get a new number and email address. Do a factory restore on all your devices.
If there is any abuse - sexual, physical, or emotional - it is going to be shielded and facilitated. This is part of her sadism. She was been going this for more than 30 years. People like her not only never change, but get worse with time. This is how she eats. This is how she fuels the sadism that she developed early on.
It doesn't matter how cruel or disgusting the outcome is. Valerie is a master at distributing the money. No one will help you. Most will take it and act against you. All the rest won't want to get involved.
nothing good is allowed to happen to your kids. They are supposed to get raped and feel Ms. Houghton's pain as she chugs her wine, pops her pills and laughs. That's the bottom line. She is sick.
Valerie thinks that if she says that I am crazy, it will clean her hands of the sexual abuse that she has forced my children to endure. She is a fraud. You can never trust anything that she says or does.
Valerie has absolutely no shame, nor any remorse. She used my pimped out my 13 year old son for $80,000 in gold coins. She didn't care that I was paying her at the time.
She is sick. Most people cringe when they hear about children being abused. Ms. Houghton doesn't have the capacity to care for another human being. That is not in her job.
I complained to the District Attorney about the poisoning and all the sex trafficking. Instead of helping me, the DA filed a motion to dismiss the above charges against Ms. Houghton.
She is ghoul. Solving her issues by getting more kids raped. She ZERO conscience. As long as a document says something contradictory, that's all that matters to her. There could be kids screaming and crying in the background. Houghton just doesn't care.
She is violent child abuser pretending to be a Marriage and Family Therapist. Everything is a facade. If she doesn't have, Valerie will figure out a way to have that covered.
Always remember that Houghton is listening to your calls, reading your emails, and watching you browse the internet. She will use said information to both gain a tactical advantage to achieve her goals and destroy your life. Then she will laugh. She calls such things "pranks." https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=NcE7CdNqLpW3EeIx-llQ5A
She will always win in the end because she will do whatever it takes. Valerie does all the things that no one else will do - things that are evil, immoral, and illegal.
Everything Valerie does in contrived. She will force her issues on you to shape her narratives. Nothing that she does matches reality. She let my son get molested, then ignored my pleas for help. Afterwards, I was then to get a restraining order, and my son continued to get molested in silence.
Valerie has a child abuse issue. It just keeps happening over and over. She can't help herself, so she contrives a situation to deflect. Now she is sex trafficking my daughter and tampering with evals to keep the aforementioned abuse going. Again, none of it is rooted in reality. You are supposed to accept Houghton's sick reality as your own.
She doesn't get it. When you force a child to get molested, it is not a "prank". Child molestation should never be a laughing matter. Terrorizing people with information gleamed from one's personal browsing history, phone calls, and emails is just not that funny.
You will have a tough time explaining that to her, though.
Valerie is the chief strategist for all the attorneys on each side. Everything runs through her. What happens in the courtroom is a charade. If you have a criminal defense attorney because false claims have made, expect them to also be part of it. Nothing will go away until Valerie says so. I couldn't even get the police report from my attorney that showed that no domestic violence occurred. That hurt my attempt to argue against having one. When I finally did get one, it was after it was too late. Even then, the report was devoid of the written statement and pertinent follow up interview.
There really is no way to win with Valerie on your case. She pulls all the strings to make life as miserable as possible for all those involved. If you fire the attorneys, all bets are off. You will get demolished. Having to pay her to be on your case will be an offer that you can't refuse.
The abuse is non-stop and never ending. Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuQ0GI8LzS8
She likens abuse to being caught under the surf and never catching your breath. It's exactly what she does. The abuse and who is behind might be under the radar at first. You just need to realize who is doing it. I'm not sure what you can do about it, even if you realize what is going on. If you call her out on it or complain, she just turns up the heat. Valerie only uses misery when problem solving. I can cite many examples.
Valerie is infallible. Whatever she situation she creates will be the law of the land. If she makes a mistake, she will double, triple, quadruple... down on whatever the outcome is.The issue at heart is her sadistic tendency. Whatever she doubles down on will be a miserable situation.
So if you get a restraining order, your kids are molested, or you get poisoned, expect all that to continue. I have found Valerie to not be very flexible.
I would say that answer is "right." She doesn't care about truth, nor consequence. There has to be an appearance of being "right." That is the insanity of it all. You don't pay her to be effective. You pay for whatever appearance she conjures up. You pay for insanity.
Hire Ms. Houghton because she is incapable of anything else. There will be no smooth sailing with her onboard. You will have to start planning for big waves and strong gales.
You will never feel the boat rock so strongly. Everyone will get sick. There is no one to help. You must ride out the storm until your children turn 18.
A rule of thumb with Valerie is that something is nothing and nothing is something. When there is something like child molestation, she treats it as nothing. If she wants to take away your children or have you arrested, she will do it with nothing.
Another rule of thumb: you will be painted as a bad person, and treated as such - especially if you work with kids. I think that she has done so much harm to families that she projects it on to others. It's not her, it's you. You need to go to jail. Lets get you a restraining order. You can't see your kids.
She has no responsibility for what she does. You need to pay for everything.
How she has chutzpa to poison a person, then demand a parent allow her to pimp out his kids is something that is difficult to digest. Valerie has an ugliness within her that I have never seen before. Sometimes I feel bad thinking about what must have happened to her. Mostly, I want her to get away from me and my kids.
As I mentioned, Valerie that I need to fix what she did to my kids by submitting to an evaluation that she will tamper with. She believes that it was not the fact that she let my son get molested that led to her "losing a lot of business," but rather the fact that I complained about it.
I went ahead and complained further to the District Attorney's Office. the police, EVERY judge within the Hall of Justice, the Attorney General, the Sheriff's Department, EVERY single member of the State Legislature, the State Bar, the Board of Supervisors of Santa Clara County, County Counsel, the Mayor of San Jose, the Presiding Judge, every member of the Supreme court of California, the FBI, and many other relaxant people.
I gave all the details of what happened to my kids, names of doctors who could corroborate poisoning, and details pertaining to Ms. Houghton's plan to tamper with an evaluation. I believed that exposing Ms. Houghton's plan would remove any incentive to continue.
Boy was I wrong. She is insane. Valerie's demands are still in full force.
She is like a two year old, kicking and screaming for a piece of candy. Valerie doesn't care about how it looks that she is sex trafficking children and poisoning parents. Her focus is only on getting her way.
You would be better off hiring a hardened criminal sitting in prison to help with a custody dispute. They have a more rigid code of decorum when it comes to child abuse. No way would they sex traffic a child.
Valerie demanded cash. I only ever got two invoices from her. The rest of the times it seemed like she was making up numbers from the top of her head.
Lucky Luciano ran an extortion scheme whereby he would demand money for washing store windows. If the store declined, he would come back and break the windows. At lease there is some logic to this business practice.
Ms. Houghton, on the other hand, did the equivalent of demanding and receiving money, then just kept breaking windows. I was arrested, separated from my kids, and my son was molested while her cash demands were being met.
She didn't care that shards of glass were hitting my children. That was none of her concern.
Now she is setting the whole building on fire by poisoning me and forcing my children to endure sexual abuse until they turn 18.
I can understand why the author of the above entitled "Reign of Terror" document stayed anonymous. Everyone is scared to talk.
I would like to encourage anyone who previously dealt with her to make as many complaints as possible. Once the District Attorney, State Bar, and other agencies start getting more complaints, maybe Valerie will be forced to change her ways.
Valerie puts more value on the appearance that she did not wrong over the reality of children being raped. There was never truth in case. She forces them into misery, then does whatever it takes to make herself look like an angel. What she care if she has to take your health in the process? You are nothing but trash to her. Your kids are nothing but whores.
Forget about attorney-client. Valerie is a god and you are a pip-squeak. You are supposed to thank your lucky stars that she is on your case. If she harms you or your children, don't show any anger. You will face her wrath if you question her infallibility.
Valerie makes the rule of law completely arbitrary.
If you think that child rape is a serious matter, think again. No one will listen to you.
Even if you can prove that it happened, Valerie will still find a way to keep the sexual abuse going. Then she will force you to say "sorry Valerie, I should have not tried to protect my son. Please go tell my daughter who to have sex with."
The advent of email and mobile phones are a boon to a Ms. Houghton. It is very important to secure your devices. She can track you, write and delete emails, and get into your contact list.
Valerie just took down two websites that I put up by locking me out of my email account. She puts a strap on, takes away all your rights, and rams her dill-doe into your kids.
You don't know what a terrible person is really like until you meet Houghton. She will systemically destroy your life and take away any god given rights.
A monster that gets your kids raped and wraps her hands tightly around your mouth as they scream out for help.
Valerie forces my children to remain sexually abused so that she can "wash" her hands clean of what she did. It is the appearance that matters to her more than the reality. My children are garbage to her.
I moved to southern California for a couple of years. Do you think that it stopped the abuse? I was tipped off through my new job that I was being followed and hacked by a man named Thomas Riley. He is an attorney in South Pasadena. After I complained he removed from his website that he specializes in surveillance.
Here is his website: http://www.tprlaw.net/
and State Bar license http://members.calbar.ca.gov/fal/Licensee/Detail/194706
The only thing that Valerie Houghton is capable of is destruction. It is her go to answer for everything. Pay her - destroy. Don't pay her - destroy. Complain - destroy. Move - destroy.
She is just a criminal monster passing herself off as a therapist.
All the destruction is savored. She send someone to shoot you. It has to be slow and painful. She exerts Pain psychologically and physically. There is no discount for the children. Valerie will decimate them too.
She can't hear it. Valerie will try to say that you are the monster, as does the most heinous of actions. It's YOUR fault. She is an innocent angel. It's all part of the selfishness. Houghton does whatever she wants, then puts all the blame and crud on you.
Having Houghton in your life is an invitation to destroy it. She is destructive by nature. Valerie gets off on undermining your life, abusing the kids, and causing emotional distress. She makes sure to do it from a distance, so you can;t really prove anything. Make her mad, and she will go on a tear. It;s unrelenting abuse. Most of it really has no function, but for her to just get off.
I paid her THOUSANDS in cash, but she still made an effort to terrorize me.
Make as much sense as you want. She wants to control the narrative with sickness. There is no giving in for her. She plays to win at any cost.
You can ague whatever you want in court. Say the sky is blue. Nothing will matter. Houghton can make the sky brown with manipulation in the courts. If it sounds crazy, it is because it is. She is a maniac.
She doesn't care. All the abuse is funny. If she had the empathy, Valerie would be able to stop. But she doesn't, so you become her punching bag.
Maybe this time she is the one doing the punching. Maybe it didn't always used to be that way.
Regardless, she can satiate. Her appetite for destruction is endless.
I tell her be reasonable. If you want to get back all the lost business because I complained, then why do it again? Why take my health?
If she had the empathy, she would have stopped a long time ago. Not just because she would feel bad for the harm she caused someone, but she would also stop because because she would also have the necessary empathy for herself to not be in such a position.
I tell her that forcing kids into situations of sexual molestation won't help her get more business.She says that all she cares about is forcing a mental health evaluation.
She wants to make people feel powerless to do the things that everyone should have the right to do. It is basic instinct to protect children. That instinct is so string that it is all consuming.
This is where she gets off. There is not a stronger motivation than protecting your own. Valerie feels powerful by stripping you of the ability to act on that instinct. She wants to see people squirm and suffer.
She wants people to feel helpless as she pulls the strings.
She will always make sure to throw subtle hints. Valerie wants you to know what she is doing - show you how big and powerful she is.
As you scream out for help in protecting your children from getting raped, Valerie will be laughing at the fact that you can do nothing.
There are a lot of cold blooded people out there who will do anything just to get something. They do their deed, and that's the end of it. This is not Valerie Houghton.
Valerie doesn't necessarily do it just for the end goal. She does it for the misery. Your children become miserable from rape and other abuse. You, as the parent, then feel not only hopeless to do anything, but you also suffer from Houghton's emotional, financial, and physical abuse.
There is not a worse hell on earth than to have Ms. Houghton on your case.
It's all in her head that a piece of paper fixes something. I am not the first one to complain. The original blog post is proof of that.
She deludes herself with her own lies. Everything is already out in the open. The devil has no clothes.
Valerie is just making it worse. The irony of her being a narcissist is that she doesn't have enough empathy for herself to know when she shoots herself in the foot.
You can never get a resolution that will help protect your children from child abuse with Valerie.
This is the defacto response: Ignore pleas for help, laugh, pour on the misery, laugh some more.
You can involve whomever you want - the police, the judge, the State Bar - it will be the same response, except the misery will be worse.
Some people are like clay. They can adapt to situations by making big changes.
Valerie is concrete. Nothing will make her change the position. Her way out of a problem is the same way that got her into the problem in the first place.
She makes all the things that are NONE OF HER BUSINESS her own.
I say go away, but she never goes. She just keeps stalking and hacking. The attorney-client relationship has already been terminated, but that doesn't matter. She grabs on to the kids and doesn't let go.
When you hire a therapist or attorney to help your children, you need someone with maturity. Houghton only plays games with my children to alter what happens with the adults. She doesn't have it in her to look out for the interests of kids.
Watch this scene from the movie Casino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3LH0L4Q70s
The mobsters break every bone in Joe Pesci's brother. They force Pesci to watch while he is being restrained. They want him to feel helpless as his most basic of human instincts to protect him are triggered.
Then they brutally beat Pesci, himself, then bury him alive.
I can attest that what happened to my children, and subsequent poisoning, are no different.
Valerie wants to inflict slow and sustained pain on all the parties when she is involved in a a case. I am sorry to portray anyone in this manner, but it is the truth.
If she is on your case and she is not listed as an attorney of record, it will be more difficult to hold her accountable. Valerie can play both sides without being held to an agreement. You have to watch out for this scenario because you cannot file anything and she legally doesn't have to do anything. I am not saying that you will an easy time with her being officially on your case - because you won't.
Maybe you will have a heard time believing this. Valerie is an elderly woman who pouts her lips and looks sad when you tell her of your pain. She is after all a licensed therapist.
Make sure to ask around.
That act dissipates quickly. Once she harms you, she won't have any respect for you and the abuse will spiral out of control.
Valerie is the judge, jury, executioner, and attorney all rolled up into one. As far as she is concerned, there is no conflict of interest if you wear all of the hats. She can even be your ex's attorney.
Valerie will give you the "advice," then a consequence for not taking it. Still not listening? Heck, she is even a nurse. Time for cyanide and heavy metals.
Once she abuses you and your kids, it has to stay that way.
If the kids are being raped, tough luck. Valerie can't have anyone knowing what she does. She has to keep the therapist vibe going.
Try telling her that it's too late because you told everyone. She won't be able to hear you. Valerie will just keep abusing you until you agree to join her sick charade.
Consequences don't only change the probability of behaviors occurring, but they also change how a behavior is performed.
If the consequence of pecking a key causes the availability of food, then the pecking begins to resemble eating. The gape in the beak becomes directly proportional to size of the food pellet and the motion of the neck during key pecking resembles actual eating.
If that same key then is changed to cause presentations of water, the beak then closes during the peck, like it does for actual drink. The motion of the neck changes accordingly, as well.
Valerie does most all of her work outside the courtroom. She will stifle you at every turn, then force a resolution in court by deception, coercion, and/or corruption. There will likely not even be that many filings or hearings. Most of the money expended in my case went directly to Valerie.
The covertness of hiding is highly adaptive. Most violent people who force children into sexual abuse end up in prison. Houghton has figured out a way to continue terrorizing people and their children in perpetuity.
You should see some of the thugs that work for her. Many of them look like they are in Latino street gangs. Most of the time the work gets trickled down even further. Those guys just do all the stalking and payments. Family, friends, baristas, doctors, other attorneys, and many, many others do most of the actual work.
Houghton is so far removed that she will never be caught.
Capone and Gotti worked on a much larger scale. If they committed a small fraction of their crimes, no one would even bother trying to catch them. It also doesn't hurt Valerie that she is well connected. Even if you map a lot of it out, she will figure a way out of it. The criminal complaint that is attached to the original blog post is proof.
Valerie is sneaky about everything. If she wants to poison you, it is really not that big of a deal for her.
You might be like me. People are supposed to be good, especially white collared professionals. No way would I have contemplated that it was feasible, or even likely to occur. Only crazy people do stuff like that.
I attributed a lot of the symptoms to other things.
No one tells you what is really gong on because no one wants to get involved. Remember that it it will never be Valerie, herself, who gets into your car. There will be people that are approached who refuse to do it, but don't say anything.
As my health deteriorated, I had people come up to me and tell me that I looked healthy. Photos in hindsight showed otherwise. It's something that is difficult to see real time. Feedback is important. But Valerie had that covered. Once she embeds herself into your life, she really gets into every aspect.
The creep couldn't just apologize for what she had already done to my kids. Valerie punished me for what she did. Didn't feel sorry for one bit of it. She was just interested in suppressing my efforts to protect them.
It was too late at that point. She had already forced my son to get molested and separated me from my kids. As far as she was concerned, it was going to stay that way.
You won't find many people like Houghton. Her abuse is sadistic and unrelenting. Once she draws blood (and she draws quite a but) she has to put it all on you.
She let my son get molested, so she took my kids away. You won't meet a more terrible person with the expertise to abuse covertly that she has. Most terrible people wouldn't even dare to do a fraction of what she does. They don't want to end up in prison.
But when a person has the desire and the means to ruin the life of a person, you will have a big problem. More often than not, you will only have half of that equation.
She will always win in the end. There is always going to be fraud from beginning to end. Valerie will always beat up the on the good one. It yields the most money. She will need to use fraud to take the kids.
Then she will need to cover up the fraud with more fraud. No one can ever know what she did. ABuse- fraud abuse-fraud abuse-fraud abuse-fraud abuse -fraud.... each step of the way just gets worse and worse.
Now she is making court filings that I cannot even see. There is always going to be a ruse that you have to detect.
She will fuck up your kids so badly that you won't recognize them. You won't really have choice, though it might seem like it in the beginning. You might resort to blaming yourself.
It is the conundrum that keeps her going. You will feel utterly helpless as your children are destroyed. Take any step in the wrong direction and you will pay dearly.
Even if I manage to protect them somehow, I know that they will have Valerie's scar for the rest of their lives. She said it herself. They are "finished."
The problem is that it doesn't help my kids. What the fuck does Houghton care? 843,343,322 suffering kids is not even worth the fingernail clipping that she just threw in the dustbin.
Winning for her can only be defined as misery. It doesn't matter what you do. Even if you are on good terms with her and are paying whatever she asks, she wants to "win".
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1 – 200 of 918 Newer› Newest»Valerie Houghton knew that my ex was letting an older man molest my son. Although Ms. Houghton is a mandated reporter, she didn't do anything to protect my son. I was instead cut out of his life with a restraining order. I asked Judge Towery to tell my why a restraining order was issued. He could not give me an answer of any kind. https://copblaster.com/blast/34409/judge-james-e-towery-sex-trafficked-all-of-my-children
I wanted to protect my children so I asked Judge Towery to recuse himself from my case. He previously employed Ms. Houghton at his former law firm. The statue dictates that he was compelled to do so, but he refused my request. I was forced to file a lawsuit in the Northern District of California. Now I am being retaliated against.
My youngest daughter (that I have with a different mother) is in the custody of a man who previously drugged and raped a teen. Judge Towery simply doesn't care. He wants to have me made out as crazy because of the conduct that I have alleged. The mother, herself, knows of the danger of letting him legal rights to our daughter. She came to court and AGREED that I should establish paternity. But before we could sign said stipulation, we were rushed into the courtroom and my motion was DENIED.
How could anyone do that to an innocent child?
Ms. Houghton says, "My child, my rules." She says that "she'll have fun."
It wasn't enough what was done to my other children. They have to destroy all of them.
Valerie knew exactly what she was doing. After she secured $80,000 from the information that my ex was letting someone molest our son, Ms. Houghton said that the kids would be "finished" without me.
My son is now an adult, so I was recently able to see him. After he confirmed that he had been molested, I urged him to report it to the police. A week and a half later Judge Towery filed an order on his own accord. There was no hearing and no one petitioned the court. The order prevented me from contacting my son without supervised visitation.
I read the above "Reign of Terror" document above. It is spot on. The only thing missing is that Ms. Houghton also poisons. She did so after I complained. You would think that dropping the complaints would be enough to stop the assaults. There was a period that Ms. Houghton didn't even have any demands. She just did it because she could.
Valerie doesn't know what it means to take responsibility. She says that she "lost a lot of business" because I complained. She doesn't think correlate the lost business to extortion, fraud, poisoning, or letting my son get molested. It had to be all my fault, so she continued to take my health.
You can see in the screenshots of her former website that she touts Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR). That had to be the biggest irony of all. The first complaints that I made were done discreetly and directly to her. Valerie never once responded. She did, however, send people to hack, threaten, and harass me. Later, as I escalated the complaints, she had me poisoned.
You can never expect to have any issues resolved with Valerie. She makes unreasonable and sadistic demands - and you are expected to comply.
Read this web pages for more info on how Ms. Houghton operates.
https://copblaster.com/blast/26041/valerie-houghton-is-an-attorney-who-sex-trafficked-my-children
https://ripoffscams.com/reports-filed/valerie-houghton-lmft/san-jose/valerie-houghton-lmft-counselors-and-consultants-inc-valerie-houghton-extorted-me-and-defrauded-me-of-my-children-san-jose-ca-california/70002/
I offered to keep quiet and to write her a fake testimonial. I even asked the district attorney to give her immunity for anything that I have alleged.
I want my children protected.
Nothing is good enough for Valerie. She wants what she wants. Why should she care if my children are being sexually abused?
There is always a joke involved. She finds all the inflicted misery to be funny. I think that is Ms. Houghton's biggest issue. If she were able to put herself in someone else's shoes, she would never do any of it.
Valerie compared my kids to "ATM machines" during a meeting with her. I think that it was more than money. She didn't have to give my ex sole custody. There has always been a sadistic element when dealing with her. She could have done it a million different ways, but she chose the most sinister of outcomes.
The fact that she forced my youngest daughter to be under the legal custody of a rapist - only proves it. The other mother even didn't want it that way.
Valerie Houghton is a punishing person. I was threatened on multiple occasions with incarceration while I was going through my divorce. What was it that I did that was so bad? Was it leaving my ex-wife? Was it telling Ms. Houghton to protect my son? Was it not wanting to pay Ms. Houghton any more of her cash demands?
What was it that I did to deserve all the poisonings? Who is she to demand that two parents let a rapist have legal custody of their daughter?
None of this is my fault. Valerie wants to put all the blame on me. She had the obligation to protect my son. All my pleas for help fell on deaf ears. She was only interested in the money.
I was not even allowed to talk to my son about it during supervised visitation. You could see the pain on his face, but I was told that I just being "neurotic".
She had all of the control, yet she takes none of the responsibility.
Here are the expectations once you retain Houghton:
1. Do whatever you are told. This does not mean that you won't be punished. The misery inflicted will, however, be mitigated by compliance.
2. Always pay what Ms. Houghton demands. I believe that I was double or triple billed, but I cannot say for certain because she verbally demanded amounts. (see #1)
3. Never fire Ms. Houghton for any reason. (see #1)
4. Never complain about Ms. Houghton for any reason. (see #1)
Poisoning a person is particularly sadistic. Different poisons do different things. It also allows for more repetition over time, compared to using a gun or knife.
Valerie is not only a therapist and attorney, but also a registered nurse that used to specialize in medical malpractice. She can strip away your health with ease.
It is easier to deal with someone who is more overt with their aggression. Avoiding overt aggression is more straight forward. There will never be an issue of detection. Also, someone with a gun or knife won't toy with you.
You are not a human being to Valerie. Maybe she has the therapist credential to falsely show otherwise.
The restraining order the prevented me from contacting the kids dictated that I would only see them if "mother agreed". I worked with kids for a living.It became painful to be around other kids after being cut off from my own.
I ended up being homeless and found a job at a warehouse. I asked for a reduction in child support. Not only was the request denied, but my support was actually increased. I was left with roughly $300 a month after taxes and support.
I didn't even have enough money to eat. Food stamp eligibility is calculated without child support obligations. I had to use food pantries just to eat enough. It has been that way for almost four years.
I was a good father. I didn't deserve any of that. MY SON DIDN'T DESERVE TO GET MOLESTED.
There is not really a way out once Valerie is retained. She won't ever let go. There is too much in it for her.
If you try to back out, she will play the other party against you and punish you. Punishment consists of sanctions, arrests, harassment, loss of visitation, and even poisoning.
If Houghton operated in any other context, you would have some type of recourse.
I feel bad for any of her current and past clients. I feel sorrow for all of the children.
Valerie doesn't see her infliction of misery as wrong. She views herself as superior and entitled to make any orders. You lose your freedom to make basic choices. You are not even allowed to decide whether or not your children are sexually abused.
Valerie is like a god. If you disobey her, she can take your health, children, or ability to shelter yourself.
She destroys the moral fabric of society. Valerie is just one person, but her misery is spread exponentially.
There is a high probability that my children will also be abusers. Many turn their heads in the other direction, but fail to acknowledge how Ms. Houghton's misconduct potentially affects their own children and grandchildren.
She in effect normalizes the sexual abuse of children. All of my complaints fall on deaf ears. People are becoming numb to it.
All the judges, attorneys, and leaders who have heard my complaints will be less likely to protect children.
Valerie is completely selfish. It didn't matter that my son was being molested. She wanted $80,000 placed into trust. Then she concealed the abuse. All that did was allow the abuse to continue. I guess that was better than an open-shut divorce.
Now she wants to save face. She wants to have me made out to be crazy. Valerie doesn't care that she is throwing my daughter under the bus to do it.
All my kids must suffer for selfish Houghton.
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=QAYSgVDdNqYn7uMwJqDetQ
Valerie literally takes away all your rights. She suffocates her clients until she gets what she wants.
These are her words, not mine:
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=4mLvCiKS8TIOsZov0Vnz5w
Dear Valerie,
What kind of a person poisons a parent trying to protect their children?
What is wrong with you?
Sincerely,
Ben Z.
(emailed screenshot on URL to valerie@valeriehoughton.net)
Valerie,
Why do you think that you lost so much business?
Only a monster would strip you of your health because you don't won't your children raped.
Valerie, if you could comprehend this, there would have never been business lost.
If Valerie is on your case, she is going to take everything that she wants. No one is going to get in her way. She demands you to stay quiet about it.
It is difficult to know that Valerie is behind everything. I only know because I have been dealing with her for 7 years. Everything she does is indirect and with trickery.
She will hack you if she is on your case. It doesn't matter who was the one who hired her. Knowledge is king. She will use any information to maximize her leverage and profit. Make sure to periodically do a DFU restore on your phone. Never open attachments or have WiFi on. Also never leave your phone unattended.
Periodically change all your passwords. Never use the same one across devices and accounts.
Valerie will use your friends, family and co-workers to her advantage. Stop using social media. She will use it for data mining.
Valerie is sick. There is no other way to put it. A THERAPIST who goes out of there way to sex traffic someone's children TWICE is crazy.
There are a million ways that she could have saved faced. Valerie is a one trick pony.
It's a joke really. She poisons, stalks, and hacks her clients. Valerie is a "family counselor" that separates children from good parents and lets the kids get sexually abused.
I've posted this all over the internet. I know that Valerie has previously sued Erika Torres and some other people because they falsely claimed that she stole about $2000.
All of these postings probably don't help Ms. Houghton's business aspirations. If all of this information is false, it would make sense for Ms. Houghton to also sue me.
https://unicourt.com/case/ca-scl-valerie-houghton-vs-erika-torres-phd-et-al-778735
When you deal with Valerie you are not allowed to feel angry.
You are not allowed to protect yi6r kids.
You are not allowed to have freedom.
You are not allowed to have privacy.
You are not allowed to be human.
technically Ms. Houghton broke the law when she let my son get molested. Beside being a mandated reporter of child abuse, Ms. Houghton used the legal system to sex traffic my children. California penal code 236.1 dictates that it is illegal to use a legal proceeding to facilitate an improper sexual encounter with a minor.
(a) A person who deprives or violates the personal liberty of another with the intent to obtain forced labor or services, is guilty of human trafficking and shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison..
(1) Coercion includes a scheme, plan, or pattern intended to cause a person to believe that failure to perform an act would result in serious harm to or physical restraint against any person; the abuse or threatened abuse of the legal process; debt bondage; or providing and facilitating the possession of a controlled substance to a person with the intent to impair the persons judgment.
(2) Commercial sex act means sexual conduct on account of which anything of value is given or received by a person.
I never signed up to get poisoned or for my kids to get sex trafficked.
What did I get for that $30,000?
I fired her, but she refuses to go away.
She can only offer you and your kids misery.
Valerie has no boundaries. Everything and anything is game.
Your kids, privacy, health, and happiness all belong to her until she drains all the money and has all of her interests met.
Valerie,
Please leave me alone already.
You are the one who defrauded me.
I am sorry that it happened.
I apologize for complaining.
Please leave me and my kids alone.
Sincerely,
Ben Z.
(screenshot and URL emailed to valerie@valeriehoughton.com)
All you need to know about Valerie is that she operates on misery. If you don't comply with her demands, she will just pile it on. She uses harassment, blackmail, threats, incarnation, and access to your children to put on the pressure. The arsenal included poison for me, but I am not sure if that is reserved for only someone that complains. Either way you are dealing with someone who doesn't take no for an answer.
I never understood why it is national policy to not negotiate with terrorists until now. Once you give in to something, it is like throwing gasoline into the fire. It is a never ending cycle of demands and expectations for strict compliance.
There really is no way to win. She can hurt you in many different ways, including financially and through access to your children.
The trick is to catch on. If you are working with her, everything is a given. It is just that she operates in an indirect manner. You won't realize that you have been hacked or are being followed. You also might not realize that she is coordinating with all the attorneys.
You can read more on people who poison here.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-human-equation/201207/psychological-profile-poisoner
https://www.latimes.com/opinion/la-xpm-2013-sep-01-la-oe-blum-poison-20130901-story.html
Valerie laughed about my son getting raped. I don't believe that any amount of money would have sufficed. She was going to let him get molested.
She is doing the same exact thing again. Taking all the choice out of it, forcing the child to get raped.
She has nothing to offer anyone. I didn't get anything for the $30,000 that I paid my attorneys except a loss of health, poverty, and my children abused. I paid all of the monies in cash as DEMANDED by Valerie.
She ruined my life. If that wasn't enough, Valerie demands not only an apology, but she wants me declared mentally insane.
"me.. me... me"
That's all you'll get from her.
Her low empathy borders on lunacy. She does not care if you live in car, your organs damaged, and your children raped. As long as she gets what she wants, that is all that matters.
If valerie gets kids raped and poisons a parent who complained, where does she draw the line?
Is nothing sacred to Houghton?
I am sorry to say, but she is a child abuser. Any person who knowingly and intentionally puts a child in harms way is a child abuser.
Houghton has found a way to both monetize child abuse and be shielded from liability.
There is nothing sacred to Valerie Houghton. She SOLD my kids knowing that they were being sexually abused. That's all it was to her: a sale, like buying something at the store.
Then there was the taking of my health after I complained. She had already made me destitute. Valerie knew that there was not much more that she could do to me.
She didn't care that the damage was permanent. Ms. Houghton is capable of doing anything to get the outcome that she wants. There is never any consideration for the suffering of another.
She also doesn't consider the morality of her actions. Society frown on children getting raped, but that didn't stop her from giving my daughter to a rapist. Valerie didn't even care that the mother AGREED that I should establish paternity. What she did was akin to kidnapping a random child of the street and selling the child for her purposes.
The truth doesn't matter. She gets to decide both fate and reality. All the rest is minutia.
What kind of a person doesn't understand that parents want to protect their children?
I don't think that violence should occur outside of self defense, but I can sort of understand that Valerie felt pressure after I complained. The misconduct was hard, if not impossible, to deny.
BUT ALL THE COMPLAINTS ARE NOW GONE.
WHY CAN'T VALERIE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE TO PROTECT MY KIDS?
Valerie covertly embeds herself into your life. She will destroys everything in her wake. It is all a game to her. Your children's well-being mean nothing to her. She will systematically destroy them, while forcing you to watch. Then she will threaten them to keep them quiet. Anyone who opens their mouth will be annihilated. Valerie runs the show. By the time that you realize what is happening, you will have ZERO leverage to do anything.
Her daughter is in on the action. She is one who will harass you electronically.
The only way out is to move far away, change your number, and stay anonymous. I never thought that I would write such things, but she is a true sociopath with quite unlimited power.
Don't ever complain. Never show her anger. Those are things that will set her off. If you are in a custody dispute, weigh your options carefully, while understanding that it will not end until your children are adults.
You may think that all of this is an exaggeration. I would have, myself, 7 years ago. Take it all seriously. Learn from it. Try to get away. What you might think is impossible, is something that she is capable of achieving. Drugging, poisoning, crazy orders, and even taking a child from two parents who are on good terms - are all things that are achievable for her.
Always remember. The key is realizing what is going on. If she is on your case, most of what is on these posts will occur covertly. I forgot to mention jail in the post just prior. You might have never been in trouble before you met Ms. Houghton. It will all come as a shock that arrests might begin to occur. She has her ways.
She won't take no for an answer. Valerie is stubborn as hell and gets whatever she wants. Forget about what is normal. That just doesn't apply once you deal with her. Her and her team will stalk you until they figure out a way to get it done. You can no longer trust anyone around you. It is like being in a horror movie.
I think that the only people who succeed are the ones who move far, far away. You have to disappear. Put the utilities in someone else's name. Get a new number and email address. Do a factory restore on all your devices.
If there is any abuse - sexual, physical, or emotional - it is going to be shielded and facilitated. This is part of her sadism. She was been going this for more than 30 years. People like her not only never change, but get worse with time. This is how she eats. This is how she fuels the sadism that she developed early on.
It doesn't matter how cruel or disgusting the outcome is. Valerie is a master at distributing the money. No one will help you. Most will take it and act against you. All the rest won't want to get involved.
nothing good is allowed to happen to your kids. They are supposed to get raped and feel Ms. Houghton's pain as she chugs her wine, pops her pills and laughs. That's the bottom line. She is sick.
It was bad enough what happened to my kids, especially my son. But Valerie kept involving them in the abuse. She put it all on them.
She couldn't take responsibility for what she did, so she kept pulling the strings and ran my family into the ground.
Valerie thinks that if she says that I am crazy, it will clean her hands of the sexual abuse that she has forced my children to endure. She is a fraud. You can never trust anything that she says or does.
Valerie has absolutely no shame, nor any remorse. She used my pimped out my 13 year old son for $80,000 in gold coins. She didn't care that I was paying her at the time.
She is sick. Most people cringe when they hear about children being abused. Ms. Houghton doesn't have the capacity to care for another human being. That is not in her job.
I was so naive.
Want to know how much power she has?
I complained to the District Attorney about the poisoning and all the sex trafficking. Instead of helping me, the DA filed a motion to dismiss the above charges against Ms. Houghton.
You are FUCKED if she is on your case.
You are better of dealing with violent people who are felons. At least those people have a fear of getting caught.
I've been begging Mr. Rosen, the District Attorney, to help me protect myself and my children. It all lands on deaf ears.
She doesn't say "I can do whatever I want, whenever I want" for no good reason.
She is ghoul. Solving her issues by getting more kids raped. She ZERO conscience. As long as a document says something contradictory, that's all that matters to her. There could be kids screaming and crying in the background. Houghton just doesn't care.
She is violent child abuser pretending to be a Marriage and Family Therapist. Everything is a facade. If she doesn't have, Valerie will figure out a way to have that covered.
Always remember that Houghton is listening to your calls, reading your emails, and watching you browse the internet. She will use said information to both gain a tactical advantage to achieve her goals and destroy your life. Then she will laugh. She calls such things "pranks." https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=NcE7CdNqLpW3EeIx-llQ5A
She will always win in the end because she will do whatever it takes. Valerie does all the things that no one else will do - things that are evil, immoral, and illegal.
Valerie will drag your kids "into [her] muddy tar pit"
Watch for yourself:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuQ0GI8LzS8&t=1425s
Everything Valerie does in contrived. She will force her issues on you to shape her narratives. Nothing that she does matches reality. She let my son get molested, then ignored my pleas for help. Afterwards, I was then to get a restraining order, and my son continued to get molested in silence.
Valerie has a child abuse issue. It just keeps happening over and over. She can't help herself, so she contrives a situation to deflect. Now she is sex trafficking my daughter and tampering with evals to keep the aforementioned abuse going. Again, none of it is rooted in reality. You are supposed to accept Houghton's sick reality as your own.
She doesn't get it. When you force a child to get molested, it is not a "prank". Child molestation should never be a laughing matter. Terrorizing people with information gleamed from one's personal browsing history, phone calls, and emails is just not that funny.
You will have a tough time explaining that to her, though.
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=NcE7CdNqLpW3EeIx-llQ5A
Valerie is the chief strategist for all the attorneys on each side. Everything runs through her. What happens in the courtroom is a charade. If you have a criminal defense attorney because false claims have made, expect them to also be part of it. Nothing will go away until Valerie says so. I couldn't even get the police report from my attorney that showed that no domestic violence occurred. That hurt my attempt to argue against having one. When I finally did get one, it was after it was too late. Even then, the report was devoid of the written statement and pertinent follow up interview.
There really is no way to win with Valerie on your case. She pulls all the strings to make life as miserable as possible for all those involved. If you fire the attorneys, all bets are off. You will get demolished. Having to pay her to be on your case will be an offer that you can't refuse.
The abuse is non-stop and never ending. Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuQ0GI8LzS8
She likens abuse to being caught under the surf and never catching your breath. It's exactly what she does. The abuse and who is behind might be under the radar at first. You just need to realize who is doing it. I'm not sure what you can do about it, even if you realize what is going on. If you call her out on it or complain, she just turns up the heat. Valerie only uses misery when problem solving. I can cite many examples.
Valerie is infallible. Whatever she situation she creates will be the law of the land. If she makes a mistake, she will double, triple, quadruple... down on whatever the outcome is.The issue at heart is her sadistic tendency. Whatever she doubles down on will be a miserable situation.
So if you get a restraining order, your kids are molested, or you get poisoned, expect all that to continue. I have found Valerie to not be very flexible.
I was directed to view a tweet from Valerie regarding getting an evaluation. She says, "Do I want to be right, or do I want to be effective?"
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=QAYSgVDdNqYn7uMwJqDetQ
I would say that answer is "right." She doesn't care about truth, nor consequence. There has to be an appearance of being "right." That is the insanity of it all. You don't pay her to be effective. You pay for whatever appearance she conjures up. You pay for insanity.
Want chaos in your life?
Hire Ms. Houghton because she is incapable of anything else. There will be no smooth sailing with her onboard. You will have to start planning for big waves and strong gales.
You will never feel the boat rock so strongly. Everyone will get sick. There is no one to help. You must ride out the storm until your children turn 18.
A rule of thumb with Valerie is that something is nothing and nothing is something. When there is something like child molestation, she treats it as nothing. If she wants to take away your children or have you arrested, she will do it with nothing.
Forget about rights. You are a slave to her every whim. She doesn't take kindly to any dissent and always has to be right.
She will find all the vulnerabilities and exploit them to control you. The more money --- the more control she will exert.
Another rule of thumb: you will be painted as a bad person, and treated as such - especially if you work with kids. I think that she has done so much harm to families that she projects it on to others. It's not her, it's you. You need to go to jail. Lets get you a restraining order. You can't see your kids.
She has no responsibility for what she does. You need to pay for everything.
You can read several other examples in the document above regarding teachers and nurses having their kids taken away by Houghton.
I think that it makes her feel like crap to be around a good person. It makes her feel angry, so she takes it out on you.
It's like a competition to her. She has to be the best. You are not allowed to care about your children or any other child.
Maybe Valerie didn't get any love when she was a child. Now she is jealous of children who are loved. IF SHE COULDN'T HAVE IT, THEN NO ONE ELSE CAN.
Bad behavior, such as molestation and severe neglect, go unaddressed.
But god forbid you take good care of children... it will catch her eyer.
How she has chutzpa to poison a person, then demand a parent allow her to pimp out his kids is something that is difficult to digest. Valerie has an ugliness within her that I have never seen before. Sometimes I feel bad thinking about what must have happened to her. Mostly, I want her to get away from me and my kids.
https://copblaster.com/blast/34327/valerie-r-houghton-poisoned-me-because-i-complained
As I mentioned, Valerie that I need to fix what she did to my kids by submitting to an evaluation that she will tamper with. She believes that it was not the fact that she let my son get molested that led to her "losing a lot of business," but rather the fact that I complained about it.
I went ahead and complained further to the District Attorney's Office. the police, EVERY judge within the Hall of Justice, the Attorney General, the Sheriff's Department, EVERY single member of the State Legislature, the State Bar, the Board of Supervisors of Santa Clara County, County Counsel, the Mayor of San Jose, the Presiding Judge, every member of the Supreme court of California, the FBI, and many other relaxant people.
I gave all the details of what happened to my kids, names of doctors who could corroborate poisoning, and details pertaining to Ms. Houghton's plan to tamper with an evaluation. I believed that exposing Ms. Houghton's plan would remove any incentive to continue.
Boy was I wrong. She is insane. Valerie's demands are still in full force.
She is like a two year old, kicking and screaming for a piece of candy. Valerie doesn't care about how it looks that she is sex trafficking children and poisoning parents. Her focus is only on getting her way.
You would be better off hiring a hardened criminal sitting in prison to help with a custody dispute. They have a more rigid code of decorum when it comes to child abuse. No way would they sex traffic a child.
Valerie demanded cash. I only ever got two invoices from her. The rest of the times it seemed like she was making up numbers from the top of her head.
Lucky Luciano ran an extortion scheme whereby he would demand money for washing store windows. If the store declined, he would come back and break the windows. At lease there is some logic to this business practice.
Ms. Houghton, on the other hand, did the equivalent of demanding and receiving money, then just kept breaking windows. I was arrested, separated from my kids, and my son was molested while her cash demands were being met.
She didn't care that shards of glass were hitting my children. That was none of her concern.
Now she is setting the whole building on fire by poisoning me and forcing my children to endure sexual abuse until they turn 18.
I can understand why the author of the above entitled "Reign of Terror" document stayed anonymous. Everyone is scared to talk.
I would like to encourage anyone who previously dealt with her to make as many complaints as possible. Once the District Attorney, State Bar, and other agencies start getting more complaints, maybe Valerie will be forced to change her ways.
Valerie puts more value on the appearance that she did not wrong over the reality of children being raped. There was never truth in case. She forces them into misery, then does whatever it takes to make herself look like an angel. What she care if she has to take your health in the process? You are nothing but trash to her. Your kids are nothing but whores.
Forget about attorney-client. Valerie is a god and you are a pip-squeak. You are supposed to thank your lucky stars that she is on your case. If she harms you or your children, don't show any anger. You will face her wrath if you question her infallibility.
Remember: God can take your life.
To some extent Valerie is a man-made God.
She has the ultimate power of the court to force you to live however she dictates and to hide her crimes.
Valerie makes the rule of law completely arbitrary.
If you think that child rape is a serious matter, think again. No one will listen to you.
Even if you can prove that it happened, Valerie will still find a way to keep the sexual abuse going. Then she will force you to say "sorry Valerie, I should have not tried to protect my son. Please go tell my daughter who to have sex with."
The advent of email and mobile phones are a boon to a Ms. Houghton. It is very important to secure your devices. She can track you, write and delete emails, and get into your contact list.
Valerie just took down two websites that I put up by locking me out of my email account. She puts a strap on, takes away all your rights, and rams her dill-doe into your kids.
You don't know what a terrible person is really like until you meet Houghton. She will systemically destroy your life and take away any god given rights.
A monster that gets your kids raped and wraps her hands tightly around your mouth as they scream out for help.
Valerie forces my children to remain sexually abused so that she can "wash" her hands clean of what she did. It is the appearance that matters to her more than the reality. My children are garbage to her.
I have never seen more vile behavior.
Any person who forces a child into sexual slavery should not be allowed to be around children.
Try explaining that logic to Valerie. She doesn't get it.
She is a violent child predator who hides behind her licenses.
Valerie is sexually abuses children by proxy. She did it twice.
I moved to southern California for a couple of years. Do you think that it stopped the abuse? I was tipped off through my new job that I was being followed and hacked by a man named Thomas Riley. He is an attorney in South Pasadena. After I complained he removed from his website that he specializes in surveillance.
Here is his website: http://www.tprlaw.net/
and State Bar license http://members.calbar.ca.gov/fal/Licensee/Detail/194706
Everything is done covertly. I lucked out that someone in the office tipped me off.
It was hard to pinpoint what was happening before that.
99% of people will keep it to themselves. Even people who don't participate will not want to get involved by saying something.
The hardest part is realizing how she operates.
Based on her behavior I think that she was raped as a child by a family member.
No one helped her and she was violently threatened to keep her mouth shut.
Now she recreates her childhood for everyone else.
She says it here in this video
Goats (kids) getting molested in not reportable.
Valerie created an ingenious way to make money until the kids become adults.
The good parent pays to see them, the abuser pays her to stay out of jail, and the kids get raped over and over.
It is the perfect feedback loop for her.
That is one of the reasons that the hacking never goes away.
She needs to make sure to protect the investment and also to not get caught.
So when I told my adult son to go to the police, the judge quickly filed an order that I could only have supervised visitation.
It's her right.
Everything belongs to sick Valerie.
Your kids are hers.
Your money is hers.
Your privacy is hers.
Don't want to give it up?
Your health is hers, too.
Watch this video in its entirety.
Valerie gives it all away.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuQ0GI8LzS8
She pollutes your family and the rest of the world with her behavior.
Nothing good will ever come of her involvement.
It doesn't make any sense for Valerie to continue. She says her business will all be fixed after her efforts.
But I have made sure to publicize everything.
It is just an excuse. Valerie is obsessed with getting my kids raped. Nothing will make her abate. She is the energizer bunny of getting kids raped.
The only thing that Valerie Houghton is capable of is destruction. It is her go to answer for everything. Pay her - destroy. Don't pay her - destroy. Complain - destroy. Move - destroy.
She is just a criminal monster passing herself off as a therapist.
All the destruction is savored. She send someone to shoot you. It has to be slow and painful. She exerts Pain psychologically and physically. There is no discount for the children. Valerie will decimate them too.
She can't hear it. Valerie will try to say that you are the monster, as does the most heinous of actions. It's YOUR fault. She is an innocent angel. It's all part of the selfishness. Houghton does whatever she wants, then puts all the blame and crud on you.
I never met a person who displays uglier behavior.
Having Houghton in your life is an invitation to destroy it. She is destructive by nature. Valerie gets off on undermining your life, abusing the kids, and causing emotional distress. She makes sure to do it from a distance, so you can;t really prove anything. Make her mad, and she will go on a tear. It;s unrelenting abuse. Most of it really has no function, but for her to just get off.
I paid her THOUSANDS in cash, but she still made an effort to terrorize me.
Make as much sense as you want. She wants to control the narrative with sickness. There is no giving in for her. She plays to win at any cost.
You can ague whatever you want in court. Say the sky is blue. Nothing will matter. Houghton can make the sky brown with manipulation in the courts. If it sounds crazy, it is because it is. She is a maniac.
I tell her back down. The plan is diabolical. There is nothing for her to gain. It is all out in the open.
Nope. She is bending reality in her head. Taking a shit on the ground and saying, "nothing there but a can of mountain dew and some daises"
She doesn't care. All the abuse is funny. If she had the empathy, Valerie would be able to stop. But she doesn't, so you become her punching bag.
Maybe this time she is the one doing the punching. Maybe it didn't always used to be that way.
Regardless, she can satiate. Her appetite for destruction is endless.
I tell her be reasonable. If you want to get back all the lost business because I complained, then why do it again? Why take my health?
If she had the empathy, she would have stopped a long time ago. Not just because she would feel bad for the harm she caused someone, but she would also stop because because she would also have the necessary empathy for herself to not be in such a position.
It goes both ways. How you care for others impacts the care that you have for yourself.
All those kamikaze pilots were taught to be numb. They were drugged with meth, isolated, and brainwashed.
They neither cared for cowardly killing a large number of people, nor care about ending their own lives.
They were maniacs on the loose.
Try telling Valerie Houghton that she is a terrible person for destroying your health, getting your kids raped, and ruining your life.
You are likely to hear:
It wasn't my fault.
I am a prankster.
The rules don't apply to me.
You are just a commoner. Be quiet.
Everything that she does is a fraud. Nothing is real. She even hacked into a motion before I filed it and added her own clause.
She is a pervert getting kids molested at any cost.
It will never get through to her.
Nothing stops the perversion.
I tell her that forcing kids into situations of sexual molestation won't help her get more business.She says that all she cares about is forcing a mental health evaluation.
I say she is a sicko.
Valerie couldn't even get creative about covering her tracks. She could have done it a million different ways.
But to do it to my daughter and force the others to continue to live like that is deplorable and disgusting.
She is filth.
Poison and child rape.
How do you tell her to stop?
How do you tell a monster to leave your kids alone?
She laughs while tying my kids to a bed. I beg her to stop, but that just makes her laugh harder.
"My Kids My Rules!"
Please get away from them. You are destroying them.
"She'll have fun!"
You will never meet a sicker monster. Never lets up on destroying others.
She wants to make people feel powerless to do the things that everyone should have the right to do. It is basic instinct to protect children. That instinct is so string that it is all consuming.
This is where she gets off. There is not a stronger motivation than protecting your own. Valerie feels powerful by stripping you of the ability to act on that instinct. She wants to see people squirm and suffer.
She wants people to feel helpless as she pulls the strings.
She will always make sure to throw subtle hints. Valerie wants you to know what she is doing - show you how big and powerful she is.
As you scream out for help in protecting your children from getting raped, Valerie will be laughing at the fact that you can do nothing.
There are a lot of cold blooded people out there who will do anything just to get something. They do their deed, and that's the end of it. This is not Valerie Houghton.
Valerie doesn't necessarily do it just for the end goal. She does it for the misery. Your children become miserable from rape and other abuse. You, as the parent, then feel not only hopeless to do anything, but you also suffer from Houghton's emotional, financial, and physical abuse.
There is not a worse hell on earth than to have Ms. Houghton on your case.
It's all in her head that a piece of paper fixes something. I am not the first one to complain. The original blog post is proof of that.
She deludes herself with her own lies. Everything is already out in the open. The devil has no clothes.
Valerie is just making it worse. The irony of her being a narcissist is that she doesn't have enough empathy for herself to know when she shoots herself in the foot.
You can never get a resolution that will help protect your children from child abuse with Valerie.
This is the defacto response: Ignore pleas for help, laugh, pour on the misery, laugh some more.
You can involve whomever you want - the police, the judge, the State Bar - it will be the same response, except the misery will be worse.
Some people are like clay. They can adapt to situations by making big changes.
Valerie is concrete. Nothing will make her change the position. Her way out of a problem is the same way that got her into the problem in the first place.
The only thing that she is creative about is how to make parents and children miserable.
She is so smart that I wouldn't trust her to throw away a dirty diaper.
She makes all the things that are NONE OF HER BUSINESS her own.
I say go away, but she never goes. She just keeps stalking and hacking. The attorney-client relationship has already been terminated, but that doesn't matter. She grabs on to the kids and doesn't let go.
There is the old adage that abusers try to make you out to be crazy in order to cover up what they did.
This couldn't be truer with Valerie.
But you can't neglect the fact that she abuses people for a living. She is better at it than most. Maybe even number 1.
You certainly can't ignore that she has the power of the court to make you out to be crazy.
Buyer beware.
She doesn't drive around in an Aston Martin because she protects kids. No one does. You can't make enough money from that.
haha hahaahhah ahhahahaha
She is so funny.
hahhhahahahhahahahah
child rape
hahahahahhahahahahahah
poison
hahahahahahhahahahahahahha
homeless
hahah hahhaha hahahhah hahaha hahahh ahahahhah ahhahahahhs
Take the kids away
ha hahahah hhahhaha hahahhaha hahahha ahahhahah hahaha
Writing/ reading emails for you
ahhah haha ahahahhahh ahhahahahahha hahahahha
Big phony houghton defrauding everyone behind the scenes
no one was supposed to know the truth about what she let happen
what fucking nut job
now she is mad at me because it came out
it wasn't that she did it
no
it's everyone else's fault
filth
When you hire a therapist or attorney to help your children, you need someone with maturity. Houghton only plays games with my children to alter what happens with the adults. She doesn't have it in her to look out for the interests of kids.
It doesn't matter what I tell her.
She can't turn the ship around by protecting my kids.
Valerie is only interested in a paper trail that suits her needs. Truth be damned.
What is maturity level of a person who willfully lets a boy get molested?
What is the maturity level of a person who does ANYTHING to derail efforts to protect one's children?
She likes to play it off like a caring and responsible person, but that is just an act. Her words and facial gestures don't fit reality.
Valerie wants you to feel helpless.
Watch this scene from the movie Casino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3LH0L4Q70s
The mobsters break every bone in Joe Pesci's brother. They force Pesci to watch while he is being restrained. They want him to feel helpless as his most basic of human instincts to protect him are triggered.
Then they brutally beat Pesci, himself, then bury him alive.
I can attest that what happened to my children, and subsequent poisoning, are no different.
Valerie wants to inflict slow and sustained pain on all the parties when she is involved in a a case. I am sorry to portray anyone in this manner, but it is the truth.
If she is on your case and she is not listed as an attorney of record, it will be more difficult to hold her accountable. Valerie can play both sides without being held to an agreement. You have to watch out for this scenario because you cannot file anything and she legally doesn't have to do anything. I am not saying that you will an easy time with her being officially on your case - because you won't.
I will have to be on dialysis soon.
If you need to know something about Houghton, this would be enough.
There won't be any guns. No one is going to kill you in one shot.
Valerie likes to savor the moment by taking things slow. She likes to make people feel helpless to do anything. She likes to see people squirm.
This video is the perfect analogy to working with Houghton:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3LH0L4Q70s
Valerie beats your kids as you watch helplessly, then she beats you.
No piece of paper changes the truth.
It's all trickery. She invited me to her office and shook my hand.
Made it seem like a professional meeting.
Then Valerie pulled out her bat.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3LH0L4Q70s
It is a primal instinct to protect your children.
She has lost her humanity to punish a person by poison for feeling that.
Maybe you will have a heard time believing this. Valerie is an elderly woman who pouts her lips and looks sad when you tell her of your pain. She is after all a licensed therapist.
Make sure to ask around.
That act dissipates quickly. Once she harms you, she won't have any respect for you and the abuse will spiral out of control.
Paper trails, abuse, and misery are all that she is good for.
There is no truth.
There is protection.
There is no happiness.
Valerie is the judge, jury, executioner, and attorney all rolled up into one. As far as she is concerned, there is no conflict of interest if you wear all of the hats. She can even be your ex's attorney.
Valerie will give you the "advice," then a consequence for not taking it. Still not listening? Heck, she is even a nurse. Time for cyanide and heavy metals.
Once she abuses you and your kids, it has to stay that way.
If the kids are being raped, tough luck. Valerie can't have anyone knowing what she does. She has to keep the therapist vibe going.
Try telling her that it's too late because you told everyone. She won't be able to hear you. Valerie will just keep abusing you until you agree to join her sick charade.
She is capable of killing you if you don't comply with the charade.
It took sometime to realize because I am not used to dealing with such people. I am used to seeing that only on the news and in the movies.
She will be claw into you.
Get away dirty monster. Get away from me and my kids.
She never leaves.
The streets and the courts become one.
Sign on the dotted line, or she will fuck you up.
Give her your kids, or you will regret it.
Consequences don't only change the probability of behaviors occurring, but they also change how a behavior is performed.
If the consequence of pecking a key causes the availability of food, then the pecking begins to resemble eating. The gape in the beak becomes directly proportional to size of the food pellet and the motion of the neck during key pecking resembles actual eating.
If that same key then is changed to cause presentations of water, the beak then closes during the peck, like it does for actual drink. The motion of the neck changes accordingly, as well.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50EmqiYC9Xw
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1334458/
It's all a sexual perversion when she works with kids getting raped.
It necessarily causes behaviors indicative of sexual arousal.
Pair that all food and other reinforces, and now you have a habitual sex predator.
If you want to know why a person is doing something, you have to look at the consequence.
It's magical thinking on her part to act like a piece of paper changes anything.
Everyone has eyes.
It's all too late.
She should have done something to change her behavior a long time ago.
I don't even know if it is possible for her to change.
30 plus years of eating from child rape is a long time.
I continue to fight to protect my kids because I can't change, either.
Valerie looks for all the valuable things in your life. She takes what she can, then destroys the rest.
She thinks that kids need to have sex to benefit her interests. They are her slaves the moment she enters a case.
I tell her the law and society don't work this way. BUT SHE IS A REPTILE. Says, "my child, my rules."
Don't like it? Time for some suffering.
Valerie is violent, deceptive, and sleazy.
I don't get what she thinks is funny.
Valerie does most all of her work outside the courtroom. She will stifle you at every turn, then force a resolution in court by deception, coercion, and/or corruption. There will likely not even be that many filings or hearings. Most of the money expended in my case went directly to Valerie.
There were no fee agreements. Why put a cap on how many hours, the scope, or even what it costs? Everything was at her whim.
Valerie was in complete control.
Don't like it?
There are repercussions that escalate without limits.
She tampered once again today with another filing in the court of appeal. The only way to avoid it is by writing motions by hand.
Once Valerie has her eyes on your kids, the violence and fraud never stop.
The covertness of hiding is highly adaptive. Most violent people who force children into sexual abuse end up in prison. Houghton has figured out a way to continue terrorizing people and their children in perpetuity.
You will likely never realize what she does, let alone hold her accountable.
Once someone without a conscious obtains important connections and enough money, the sky is the limit. You can harm anyone that you want.
The FBI couldn't nail Capone for any of his violent crimes. It was the tax evasion that did him in.
You should see some of the thugs that work for her. Many of them look like they are in Latino street gangs. Most of the time the work gets trickled down even further. Those guys just do all the stalking and payments. Family, friends, baristas, doctors, other attorneys, and many, many others do most of the actual work.
Houghton is so far removed that she will never be caught.
Capone and Gotti worked on a much larger scale. If they committed a small fraction of their crimes, no one would even bother trying to catch them. It also doesn't hurt Valerie that she is well connected. Even if you map a lot of it out, she will figure a way out of it. The criminal complaint that is attached to the original blog post is proof.
Valerie is sneaky about everything. If she wants to poison you, it is really not that big of a deal for her.
You might be like me. People are supposed to be good, especially white collared professionals. No way would I have contemplated that it was feasible, or even likely to occur. Only crazy people do stuff like that.
I attributed a lot of the symptoms to other things.
No one tells you what is really gong on because no one wants to get involved. Remember that it it will never be Valerie, herself, who gets into your car. There will be people that are approached who refuse to do it, but don't say anything.
As my health deteriorated, I had people come up to me and tell me that I looked healthy. Photos in hindsight showed otherwise. It's something that is difficult to see real time. Feedback is important. But Valerie had that covered. Once she embeds herself into your life, she really gets into every aspect.
The creep couldn't just apologize for what she had already done to my kids. Valerie punished me for what she did. Didn't feel sorry for one bit of it. She was just interested in suppressing my efforts to protect them.
It was too late at that point. She had already forced my son to get molested and separated me from my kids. As far as she was concerned, it was going to stay that way.
She is a god of course, albeit a dirty one. Valerie is infallible. She acts as if everything she does is right. There is never blame, nor corrections.
You won't find many people like Houghton. Her abuse is sadistic and unrelenting. Once she draws blood (and she draws quite a but) she has to put it all on you.
She let my son get molested, so she took my kids away. You won't meet a more terrible person with the expertise to abuse covertly that she has. Most terrible people wouldn't even dare to do a fraction of what she does. They don't want to end up in prison.
But when a person has the desire and the means to ruin the life of a person, you will have a big problem. More often than not, you will only have half of that equation.
Run away if she is on your case. She will destroy everything in her path once she takes the first drop. It is a never ending cycle of abuse.
She will always win in the end. There is always going to be fraud from beginning to end. Valerie will always beat up the on the good one. It yields the most money. She will need to use fraud to take the kids.
Then she will need to cover up the fraud with more fraud. No one can ever know what she did. ABuse- fraud abuse-fraud abuse-fraud abuse-fraud abuse -fraud.... each step of the way just gets worse and worse.
Now she is making court filings that I cannot even see. There is always going to be a ruse that you have to detect.
You can't just live in peace. No. That doesn't work for Valerie.
She will fuck up your kids so badly that you won't recognize them. You won't really have choice, though it might seem like it in the beginning. You might resort to blaming yourself.
When you wake up, resistance is futile.
Valerie will destroy you.
It is the conundrum that keeps her going. You will feel utterly helpless as your children are destroyed. Take any step in the wrong direction and you will pay dearly.
She is definitely one in a million.
You will be hard pressed to find someone who is more cunning, sadistic, stubborn, callous, and entitled.
I fight to the end.
I know no other way.
Even if I manage to protect them somehow, I know that they will have Valerie's scar for the rest of their lives. She said it herself. They are "finished."
And Valerie is chuckling all the way.
hah ahahahhah ahahhaha ahhhh aha haha ahh ahha ahahah ahha ahh ahhah
"she'll have fun" "He wanted it"
hahha ahahhaa hahah haha
"You are crazy" hahah ahha ahhah ahhaha ahahha
She can pay a doctor to write whatever she wants.
It covers her.
The problem is that it doesn't help my kids. What the fuck does Houghton care? 843,343,322 suffering kids is not even worth the fingernail clipping that she just threw in the dustbin.
Valerie plays to "win".
Winning for her can only be defined as misery. It doesn't matter what you do. Even if you are on good terms with her and are paying whatever she asks, she wants to "win".
Zero maturity.
Zero responsibility.
Valerie is just having some "fun" at work.
What terrible thing could I already have done to be poisoned?
Why did I deserve to have my health taken?
Is wanting to protect your kids a good enough reason?
Shouldn't she had stopped after I withdrew my complaints and stayed quiet?
These are the dumbfounding questions that I ask myself after having Ms. Houghton involved in my divorce.
She set up on purpose this way. Let the kids get molested.
Make all the money, then Valerie feels good about it after doling out the punishment for what she, herself, just did.
She hits you, then says, "look what you made me do!"
If you duck or scream out in pain, she will take offense and lash out.
You are not a human being to her. Valerie wants everyone to bend over, then say "thank you."
Thank you for taking my kids.
Thank you for letting them get molested.
Thank you for poisoning me.
Thank you for making me homeless.
Thank you for stalking, hacking, and making me miserable.
We all have to robots. Don't speak. Don't feel. Do as you are told.
You come into adulthood, but now you have a stranger that is going to order you around. The problem is that she has your worst interests at heart.
This isn't mommy, although she wants people to believe that she is a caring therapist.
destroy
destroy
do as you told
be quiet
destroy
do as you are told
be quiet
destroy
do as you are told
be quiet
Who wants that?
Who wants to pay money for that?
The problem is that she doesn't understand when you say "no" or "leave me alone"
Valerie will just keep stick around, doing her thing, while asking for silence and obedience. She forces herself on you.
Valerie is that dog who tears up the house. When you come home, she says, "Who me?" Then she acts like what she did was cute and sassy.
I can attest that there is nothing cute and sassy about losing your health and having your kids be sexually abused.
But Houghton keeps maintaining how cute, sassy, and innocent she is.
Doesn't matter that my son is severely scarred.
Doesn't matter that I will need dialysis soon.
Valerie can't break the cute, sassy, and innocent association with misery.
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