Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Attorney Valerie Houghton and Terry Houghton Criminal Prosecution Santa Clara County: Fraud Investigation Report

Controversial family law attorney Valerie Houghton has been under criminal indictment since 2016.


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Mike said...

Everything really does have to be by force.

Who wants to be around someone who is violent, vindictive, and sadistic?

Who wants to be around someone who is destructive?

The only time you will experience anything good from her is after a long period of escalating abuse. Google "cycle of abuse"

Valerie is the one who first explained that cycle to me at her office in 2014.

Mike said...

Who wants all that unpleasantness?

Who wants to lose their health?

Who wants to lose their children?

Who wants their children raped?

Who wants to be homeless?

Who wants their privacy invaded?

who wants to be harrassed?

Mike said...

It has to be by force. She quietly creeps into your life, then starts to control your life little by little. The courts are a great place for someone seeking power.

If someone robs you at gunpoint, you can go to the police.

But if you have someone covertly harassing you and defrauding you in court, the police can do NOTHING. They might tell you to complain with the State Bar, but nothing will come of that.

Mike said...

Her aim is to make you feel completely helpless. She will make you fail with every attempt to do something that is in opposition to what she wants. Remember that she hacks. She sees what you are up to.

She also throws in the punishment. There will be all sorts of that, ranging from financial abuse, loss of time with children, to poison. Many times these punishments are unsignalled and not contingent on anything that you do.

See the Seligman dog experiments. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness#:~:text=In%20Seligman's%20hypothesis%2C%20the%20dogs,escape%20from%20the%20electrified%20grid.

This is to get you to give up. She breaks you down little by little until you submit to her demands.

Valerie continually escalates the punishment. She is quite callous, so she is not going to feel bad about anything. Quite the opposite. It gets her off.

Most people will give in quickly. There is no way to fight back. You are dealing with someone who works covertly and through the courts.

Mike said...

I can tell you this much:

Valerie isn't the person who will uplift you when you are feeling down. That is a not only a sign of weakness, but it is also the time that she piles it on.

You might get some helpfulness in the beginning. She doesn't want to scare you off the bat, although I as arrested fairly soon after meeting her. But she was a little helpful.

That will go away quickly. A person who derives pleasure from being sadistic can only fake being nice for so long.

When it goes away, the only uplifting that you will recieve is relief from the misery. That is how she operates. You do as you are told. If not, she will create misery and havoc that will only be lifted once you comply.

Remember that there are also noncontingent cases of punishment that occur whether, or not, you are complying. (learned helplessness)

She wants to completely dominate you.

Mike said...

I am tired of Valerie.

Tired of all the violence and unreasonable demands.

I am tired of her dictating that my kids need to be raped.

Mike said...

I am tired of her endless cruelty.

SHe has completely destroyed my quality of life.

Mike said...

Do yourself a favor. take the kids and disappear.

You can never win with her. There are only losses that she will instigate. She plays only with house money, never her own, so she doesn't care.

Mike said...

She has to be in a class of her own. There are likely not many like her anywhere else.

I can see other attorneys out there who are as sadistic as Houghton. What sets Valerie apart is that her IQ is off the charts. She has a photographic memory and can understand complex situations quite quickly.

That is why it is imperative to keep quiet and keep your phone safe. Get rid of superfluous email accounts and social media.

I even recommend getting a decoy email account and phone to communicate with her and all the attorneys. Maybe hide the primary phone and check it once in a blue moon. Still make sure to do a DFU restore and password change periodically. Just always know that she will want continuous access and information. Valerie will keep sending someone to hack the instant that she loses signal.

Mike said...

There is a pattern to how she communicates her status, as well as yours. For herself, she puffs out her chest. She communicates that she is powerful and strong, while relating a lot of it to cartel, gangs, and superheros.

For you: druggie, crazy, fat, and even a lot of homosexual and other LGBT type stuff. I can only assume that is a lot of projection. None of that list applies to me. Valerie, on the other hand, provides therapy to a group of women transitioning every Thursday night, according to a one of PDF's that I found posted online. I won't comment on how the other stuff relates to her, only to say that it doesn't relate to me.

Mike said...

The way that she expresses her aggressiveness is not something that I typically see in a female. A lot of it is very violent and sexually domineering type innuendo. It is definitely not something that I have ever been subjected to.

Mike said...

She can't take "no" for an answer.

The minute you say, NO, I don't want my kids to be raped... or, NO, I won't undergo an evaluation, she gets violent and makes threats of violence. Tells you that it is the only way out.

I guess that is why all of my organs are now damaged. I prefer to be dead than submit to allowing my children to be raped. It is such a terrible way for a child to grow up.

Valerie just doesn't have that EEWWWW knee jerk response that prevents most people from doing that. Instead, she throws a violent tantrum.

I don't think that she really understands why a parent wouldn't want that. She definitely knows that it is wrong, but I think that if she had enough empathy to grasp how it truly makes a parent feel, she would never even go there.

Mike said...

Here come the death threats, again.

You are not allowed to have opinions, as far as Valerie is concerned. "Be quiet. Do as you are told."

I am sorry, but I not five anymore. I rather enjoy and cherish my freedom of speech. I won't let anyone take that from me.

Mike said...

"three months to live"

Who says that?

Usually it comes from aggressive males. And even then, you hear that kind of stuff only in the movies. I don't think that I have heard anyone ever threaten my life before, much less actually severely injure me.

Mike said...

I'm tired of all this over the top, aggressive behavior. It is completely abnormal. Valerie wants to shove it down my throat. She just forces you to experience it. I guess that is what stalking is all about. The stalker couldn't get your attention, otherwise. The stalker wouldn't be part of your life. I guess it makes sense in that regard.

Mike said...

Funny, crazy, I will be hurt.

That is the real time feedback. Sorry, but what I am saying is all truth.

If she wants me to stop, then she should leave me alone. I won't let her have it both ways. I don't have ANY interest in being dominated. It isn't my thing.

Mike said...

That is why she throws her tantrum. "WHy can't I dominate him?! It isn't fair.. waaa waaaa waaaa" --- sounds like a toddler.. except you have to remind yourself that it is a violent adult.

I am just so used to it now. It has been 7 years now, 4 of which included poison. I have completely lost my fear.

Mike said...

More threats of violence and laughter.....

It seems like that is always the combination, whether in threats or actuality.

Mike said...

Violence, sadism, and insanity.

You are better off disappearing, than going through a divorce that involves her. There is no way to fight it, no way to win. You will just suffer and lose ground with every attempt.

There are only two choices:

1. Submit to domination
2. Suffer

There is no strategy to counteract it. Even if you have an additional attorney, it won't matter. I had other ones. None of them did anything for me. All of them worked to screw me.

Mike said...

Do yourself a favor. Get some money together and run away before it is too late. You will never get her out of your life. You will never be able to protect your children.

You will only be forced to live her life.

Mike said...

You are better off picking a random crazy off the street to fix your family issues.

The person will likely not be as smart as Valerie, nor have the technology or money.

Mike said...

I am also tired of all the blame. She says that she "lost a lot of business"

First of all, other people have also complained. I wasn't the one who set this blog up. It was another complainer.

Secondly, before I ever complained she was indicted for theft. That complaint is readily available on the internet.

Thirdly, she really did sex traffic my kids. I had every right to try to protect them.

She just picked me to dump all of her problems on. I had zero to do with her criminal charges and with other people complaining. And if she hadn't have ssex trafficked my kids, I would have never complained.

But the insane person that she is, she expects me and my kids to clean up her mess. She is so angry and adimnet that I do it, that she has even poisoned me. This is the problem with people who sociopathic tendencies. They never take responsibility for their actions. THey make a big mess, then expect everyone else to clean it up. In this case, she even has the audacity to demand that I let my kids get raped so she can look good.

Mike said...

Valerie sells black market permits for people to rape children.

She justifies it by saying, "it's not rape if they want it."

Mike said...

Generations of children will feel what Houghton has been doing.

Mike said...

She wants to play it off like some kind of a therapist/ attorney.

The reality: she is a violent criminal who forces children to have sex with adults.

Mike said...

Two times just with me.

SHe is incapable of change. The problem and the solution are one in the same.

Mike said...

Take your children and run for the hills. Houghton will take your kids and force them to have sex with adults.

Mike said...

She creeps into your children's lives. Teaches them to do things that they shouldn't. It is not just the sexual stuff.

Mike said...

I would never let her around my kids if I had a choice.

She is not even the attorney for my children, nor is she their legal guardian. But I don't have a say.

Mike said...

It is John Gacy meets John Gotti. She has the sadistic sexual tendencies, coupled with an organized network of violent people.

Mike said...

The other added bonus is Ms. Houghton's disloyalty. She is not loyal to you, your spouse, your kids, or anyone else.

Valerie is a double, triple, and quadruple agent. The only person that she cares about is herself. She will quickly throw anyone who doesn't agree with what she wants under the bus.

Mike said...

It is counterintuitive. Paying her doesn't mean anything. That is because there are multiple people involved, as well as many sources of income, in any given case.

Valerie will go in and creates as much chaos as she can.

Then she quickly gathers as much information as she can on the various revenue sources. She will tap as many of those sources in a concurrent fashion.

Once Valerie is on those teets, it will be hard to get her off them. Her sense of entitlement is enormous. This is where the tantrums come in.

Mike said...

Like a kid in the candy store that can't get their way, Valerie gets violent and vindictive if you don't give her what she wants.

She is like a crazy slave master. Even after you fire her, she feels entitled to get you to do things.

SO forget about the notion that she works for you. Once you start paying her, YOU work for her.

Mike said...

It is completely bonkers that when you pay someone, they take over your life and start bossing you around like they own you.

Mike said...

It is like what is claimed in the criminal complain that is above.

Those weren't partners, investors or customers. The alleged victims were her servants or subjects. She was doing them a favor by allowing them to give her money.

When $500,000 of the partnership went straight into her retirement, Valerie was just doing them a favor.

Those parties that are now suing her shouldn't be mad. They should consider themselves lucky that Valerie would ring up 49ner tickets, dinners at Mortons, and car payments with the company Amex.

Mike said...

I should also consider myself such a lucky person that Valerie would just make up numbers and extort me. It is not a privilege that everyone gets to experience.

Mike said...

Here come more death threats.

I am so tired of the violent, stalker who will never leave.

Leave, Valerie. Please leave.

Mike said...

Just a turd of a person. How can she just take someone's money, then get their kids raped and take their health?

I didn't pay her for any of that.

Mike said...

If she would have disclosed from the onset that I was paying her to sex traffic my kids and take my health, then there would have been no foul. But she never disclosed any of that, nor did I ever agree to such services.

If Valerie wants to avoid complaints in the future, I suggest that she be upfront with her clientele.

Mike said...

It is okay to like dark humor, but Valerie takes it to another level when she acts on it.

Mike said...

Who wants to be involved with a comedian with dark sense of humor who acts out their bits in real like?

Mike said...

Valerie feels so entitled to demand that I let my kids get raped, then go along with her scheme to my self declared crazy and pumped full of meds.

She is a callous nut job that can't comprehend why getting kids raped and acting violently is not conducive for being a family counselor.

Mike said...

I've never met a more conceited, self absorbed, and sadistic human being.

Mike said...

Even after all this... it's like talking to wall... what? huh? what did you say?

Mike said...

She did the absolute worst things that you can do to my children. There can be no forgiveness for letting kids get raped for money. It was such a scummy thing to do, but Valerie is incapable of seeing that.

"It's not rape if they want it."

This is a person who should not be allowed to make any decisions for children.

Mike said...

"She'll have fun."

Then she wonders why she lost so much business. But Valerie, being the crazy person that she is, thinks that her stupid plan to have me declared mentally incompetent is going to get her the clientele back,

The whole county knows about her idiotic plan.

Mike said...

Every single person in the State Legislature, the board of supervisors, the state bar, all the judges.. they all know.

But Valerie has her head in the sand.

Mike said...

She thinks that she will be exonerated.

You can't fix crazy.

Mike said...

I wish that I knew what the risks were in 2014.

She ruined my life. Destroyed my health. Fucked up my kids.

Mike said...

Divorce is hard enough as it is.

The last person that I needed during my divorce was someone who was disloyal, enjoys the misery of others, commits acts of fraud and utilizes the power of the courts.

Mike said...

Here is why Freddy Krueger would be better:

1. You would be better informed. There won't be a bottle of poison hidden in his back pocket. One look at his glove and you will know what you are getting yourself into.

2. Mr. Krueger won't talk to the judge, nor confer with all the other attorneys. He is relatively responsible in comparison and will do all the work himself.

3. He never attacked a single child in all of his movies. Freddy kept the abuse to the adults.

4. The physical abuse was short lived. It never lasted more than a few seconds per individual. He never chased people around with poison for years on end.

Mike said...

The last thing that you need during a contentious divorce is a homicidal person making demands. I had enough on my plate adapting to being seperated and worrying about my kids.

At the very least, she could have made demands that were reasonable. Forcing my son to get anally raped isn't reasonable in the slightest. But you can't expect much from a mentally ill person. They just act out their craziness.

I am so tired tired of this disgusting person poisoning me and insisting that my kids be raped. GET AWAY FROM, VALERIE. YOU ARE SICK AND DISTURBED. GO GET SOME HELP.

Mike said...

I am convinced that if she was not a well connected attorney, she would have ended up in prison a long time ago. You would have read about what she does to parents and children in the paper years ago.

Mike said...

Although she acts covertly, she cannot hide her behavior. There is a pattern to it. There are also other victims.

Mike said...

She hijacks your interests in court. It doesn't matter if you are a pro per or you have another attorney. Valerie will insert her own interests into your case.

Those interests include getting children molested, separating children from parents, and putting you in jail.

You will never be heard. I begged my attorney to stop the molestation. She wouldn't lift a finger. After I fired her, all of my hearings were then vacated.

Valerie is always the one in control. Even you file a bullet proof motion, it will be denied. You are not even allowed to agree and stipulate if Valerie is opposed.

Mike said...

She invades your privacy by listening to your calls and reading your emails. The stalking never stops. Even after she gets what she wants, she continues to monitor you.

It is like being stuck in horror movie when she adds in the physical and emotional abuse during concurrent legal proceedings. She invades your life, beats the shit out of you, sex traffics your children, then uses the courts to wash her hands.

Mike said...

She is shameless. I trusted her at the beginning.

I also was paying the cash demands that she made. But that didn't stop her from having me arrested. Valerie has absolutely no loyalties. You are just a target for her to destroy.

The same went for my 13 year old son. When I told her about the molestation, she was pocketing quite a bit of cash from me.

There is nothing that one can do to ensure that she acts in your interests. You cannot expect much from a person who derives pleasure from the misery of others. Said pleasure will get in the way each and every time. Her job title means nothing.

Mike said...

There is nothing that pleases her.

Even if you are quiet, she still works to destroy you. It is not until you agree to completely obliterate your own wellbeing and that of your children that she leaves you alone.

SHe wants you to bend over so she can ram her strap on into your anus, like she allowed happen to my son, that she becomes happy.

Valerie insists that she will kill me if I don't let her deem me as crazy and let my children be molested.

Submit and bend over to the crazy and sexually aggressive Houghton. Valerie can say whatever she wants. This is what it is. She could have done it a million other ways. It never needed to involve more child rape. It never needed to involve more poison.

Mike said...

Valerie even told a friend of mine to tell a story about his acquaintance getting anal sex from a woman wearing a strap on.

This is what it is. She is a sexually aggressive woman who provides therapy to women transitioning to become men.

Mike said...

What?

You don't want your kids raped? Keep it to yourself. Ms. Houghton wants them raped and will take it personally. She is the dominatrix queen of child rape. If you don't stop it, she will get violent. Just trust her when she says that "it's not rape if they want it." It will be easier when you see your 13 year old boy traumatized from being anally raped.

And when she says that your daughter "will have fun" - just listen and trust Valerie.

Mike said...

She will beat the shit out of you if you don't listen. Valerie is the queen dominatrix of child rape and doesn't take no for an answer. She isn't joking around when she physically threatens you.

Thinking otherwise was the first mistake that I made. I guess that I am too used to thinking that a therapist or attorney acts civilly.

Mike said...

I haven;t been able to work in more than two years because she has been terrorizing me at every job and trying to get me arrested. Valerie Houghton is absolute scum. SHe destroys the every quality of life.

FOr what?

Because a human being doesn't want his kids raped?

SHe is filth.

Mike said...

Valerie has an insatiable appetite for destruction. She calls it "winning". In the end, there will be nothing left. Everything gets destroyed - all for a few laughs.

Mike said...

It is quasi legal child sex trafficking because it is achieved through the courts. This not only pertains to custody, but obviously to someone who wants to protect their children from this.

If you are a pedophile, your best bet to retain Houghton. I have found other cases (besides 2 times with me) that are similar. The pedophile will have to pay big bucks to have sex with the children, but Houghton has a knack to get it done. Even if the whole county knows, the pedophile will have nothing to worry about.

Mike said...

I don't know how she sleeps at night. Maybe the big wine collection comes in handy.

Mike said...

There is not much difference between Valerie and a common street thug. She utilizes these kinds people to stalk you. Violence, sex trafficking, and extortion are also activities performed by these people. Some of them even look like they are part of a gang.

The only difference is that Valerie is an attorney with many connections within the legal system. She is also never in physical proximity during the commission of their duties.

Mike said...

THank your lucky stars if Ms. Houghton is not working on your case. She believes that she is entitled to do whatever she wants to your children. "my child, my rules" is what she says.

Don't underestimate what a sick imagination she has. Even if both parents agree that a child should not be raped, Valerie still believes that she can get the child raped.

First she will use physical aggression, intimidation, and harassment on both parties. Even after all that, if both parties still come to court and agree, she will still use the mediator and judge to DENY you the right to make any agreement.

Mike said...

SHe completely destroys everything piece by piece. Once she took away my kids, she messed with my business and made me homeless by getting an order that I could only live off $300.

At that point fighting for my kids meant that I would need to lose my health. She took away my health piece by piece. Even staying quiet didn't matter. Valerie was having too much fun.

You don't know what it like to trapped with a monster who doesn't care about police reports. She will just force herself on top of you until you let her rape your children and abuse the legal process to make it happen.

There are no rules or limitations.

I have been terrorized for 7 years, 4 of which included poison and being homeless.

Everything that you is fair game to be destroyed. Your health, children, and freedom all belong to her.

Mike said...

She will make you feel like you deserve to be abused.

The reality is that she is scummy monster.

Mike said...

You should see the spam that she sends my way.

She is completely crazy. I don't see how she thinks that she is cute, sassy or funny. But that seems to be the way that she sees herself.

Mike said...

Valerie is cute, funny and sassy.

She lets people anally rape your children, then destroys your kidneys, liver, heart and testicles.

Mike said...

If she poisons you, don't worry. It is just a "prank"

Valerie is really deeply empathetic, caring and loving.

Mike said...

There is always an excuse.

"It's not rape if they want it."

See. Now a man forcefully sticking his penis into a 13 year old boy isn't horrific. It is just funny.

Mike said...

When you get ordered to live off $300 and all your organs are damaged, it was just meant to be good fun. You should be rolling on the floor laughing like Houghton. Really, if you think about it, nothing bad happened, even if I die tomorrow.

Mike said...

If you want a pervert to make decisions for your children, hire Valerie Houghton. She will let everyone touch your children.

It;s normal for her. She even did a second time like it was nothing.

Mike said...

Valerie indicates that everything is ready to be filed.

What does she care if all the kids are raped? SHe is the Great Valerie Houghton, provider of therapy to women and transition and dominatrix of child rape.

May we all be so lucky to have her on our case.

Mike said...

Imagine that you have a good and loving relationship with your children. One day a perfect stranger "appears" in your life. They tell you that your children must be molested. Furthermore, they say that they don't care about it and that if you try to protect them, you will be punished.

Now imagine losing this stranger sadistically poisoning you because you defy their instruction to not protect the children.

This is the nightmare that comes when Valerie is on your case.

Mike said...

You can't expect much from Valerie. She won't make you happy. She also won't fix your problems. That is not what she does.

Your problems will only be exploited. She will use them to get her way.

The smallest of problems, or even things that are not even problems, will also be used and twisted around. This gives her an unlimited source of ways to succeed. You can never win. Even the most obvious no lose arguments, such as protecting children from rape, will be lost.

She has no value to you, or anyone else in society.

Mike said...

You can't expect someone who is mentally ill to make anything better.

Mike said...

Valerie is unable to feel empathy for anyone. Most people would jump at the opportunity to protect a two year old. They would feel sadness in their heart when hearing that a child that young is being sexually abused.

They would also understand a parent's inclination to protect the child.

But Valerie isn't built like that. She revels in destroying the health of the person who opposes her views on children having sex at an early age.

Mike said...

Valerie revels in slowly destroying every facet of your being. You have no right to oppose her view that it is okay for adults to sexually abuse children. I don't know how she came to embrace it, but she is quite defensive about it.

Mike said...

Most people would shy away from those topics and situations. Valerie is gets violently defensive. She doesn't want to hear any opposition.

It is almost as if her positive beliefs about child molestation are as strong as parental instinct for the opposite.

Mike said...

Valerie doesn't know any better.

Who wants to accept that they are morally repugnant?

The reaction that I have received makes sense in that regard.

Mike said...

Valerie embraces who she is. She is fiercely defensive when anyone says that child "abuse" is wrong. The whole community can see it.

She only wins out because of her connections and money. While she in the midst of enjoying your children's destructing, the rest of the world cringes at the reality.

A psychological report is nothing more than wishful thinking. It does nothing to alleviate the destruction. You can neither lead a mentally ill person to water, nor make them drink it. They have their own bottle in hand.

Mike said...

Valerie is obviously mentally ill. People pay her for the misery. There is nothing else that she has to offer.

She is selfish and has no empathy for the pain that she causes others. So when she makes a demand, that demand will be unreasonable. It will be so unreasonable that she will need to inflict a lot of pain. This pain only goes away when her demands are met. If you hold out, the inflicted pain will systematically increase. There is not a limit. She will kill you if she has to.

There is no such thing as saying no to her. Valerie has a fragile ego and violent temper. She will be in flight or fight mode if she hears that.

Mike said...

Valerie exerts a tremendous amount of control over people's lives. There is no choice in the matter. Once she gets her foot in the door, she won't let go.

The high degree of control results in an outcome that largely reflects who she is. Even if two parents don't want it, Valerie will still make it happen. Remember she will take absolute offence to any refusal.

Mike said...

You will be terrorized for years on end. It has been 7 so far for me. I can tell you that I have never met a more cruel person.

It is one thing to put a person in jail and take away their without cause, but to force a child to be sexually abused is the sign of a monster.

Mike said...

Only Houghton would come up with such a grotesque and fraudulent solution to cover up what she did to my kids. But you can't make her see it. It was just a funny prank.

Mike said...

One of the biggest child abusers in our county wants access to more children. She attempts to redeem herself by sending yet another child to be raped, while poisoning her father.

Mike said...

She has had access to so many children over the years.

How many victims are out there? How many parents has she destroyed?

Mike said...

Valerie is mentally ill.

But she thinks that she is fit to represent children.

Mike said...

Houghton acts like a two year old with emotional issues. She doesn't understand why a parent does not want their children raped. Valerie just keeps making the same demands over and over.

When you tell her "no", she starts going into a violent fit. Keeps telling me that she is going to kill me.

She is nobody to my kids. Valerie just doesn't get it. But she is so indigent about stepping and and making them do some of the most disgusting things imaginable.

Mike said...

Everyone that deals with her should be asking the same.

Who is Valerie Houghton to force children to have sex with whomever she chooses?

Mike said...

This is a case a violent and sexually disordered person. She doesn't see anything wrong with forcing a child against their will to have sex for her benefit.

It is absolutely CRAZY that she is so indignant about it that she would have me assaulted.

Mike said...

You should see what she done to my life because I refuse to let her do that to my kids.

Valerie is mentally deranged. No sane person behaves like her. She can try and hide it as much as she wants. It doesn't change her mental fitness.

Mike said...

Just the fact that she would continue gives all the information about her mental capacity to represent a child. Even in the face of complete exposure, it cannot inhibit her need to force children to have sex.

It has nothing to do with money. If the function was money, she would have put distance and never done it a second time.

This is child rape for the sake of child rape. She will end up killing me to get it done. That is how sick she really is.

Mike said...

You just have to accept the everything exists.

You can't change someone else's sickness.

Mike said...

Think about it.

She is trying to say that I am crazy.

Her child rape God complex is completely normal.

Mike said...

She is going to kill me because I won't let her get my kids raped? If it were just money, possibly even taking the kids away, I could sort of see it as acceptable.

But her child rape god complex makes her a danger to the public.

Mike said...

I have already tried everything in the book.

Silence, appeasement, bargaining - none of it works. Valerie is hyper focused on the one thing. I have been left with no choice but to publicly post.

Mike said...

She attributes the loss of money to what she did to my kids.

No doubt it was a big loss. THe experience should have been sufficient from a learning standpoint to deter her from doing it a second time.

I know that if I lost a shitload of money from doing something - it would definitely inhibit me from doing it again.

But when sick behavior is so ingrained, it is not subject to change.

Mike said...

The next person up will also have to deal with violent tantrums, a sense of entitlement to your kids, and possibly sex trafficking.

Mike said...

I worked with kids for many years. If you make measurable differences in their lives, parents will be happy. It will lead to more business.

Valerie work under a different model. She will make you miserable. Then when you tell her that you no longer what her services, she will laugh in your face and keep "working".

Mike said...

She will leave your life in tatters. Your health is for the taking, as is your freedom and ability to provide a roof over your head.

The children will undoubtedly be abused.

This is what she expects payment for. It is expected that you believe that you are privileged that Valerie enter your life and destroy it.

If you indicate otherwise, she will get angrier and more sadistic. Valerie will bring you to your knees and ask you to apologize for disagreeing with her actions.

Mike said...

She believes that abusing you and your children make her an alpha.

Valerie cannot accept that her behavior is maladaptive. If she were an alpha, then everyone would want to be around it and there would never be a need to cover up getting kids raped.

If she were an alpha, she could openly be herself.

Valerie is delusional.

Mike said...

I guess in a way, this is an admirable trait.

Although her behavior is not subject to change, she embraces it. We all need to love ourselves, no matter what. I can understand why she sees herself as "alpha".

There is really no other way to be. She has to embrace the insanity.

Mike said...

It might be sexual abuse by proxy. But Valerie rapes you of your rights to get it done. She will bear down on you with poison and her threats.

She will NEVER take "no" for an answer, staying on top of you with clenched fists until you acquiesce to her perverted demands.

Mike said...

The violence has been severe.

Physical threats have also been graphic. People will approach with talk of shootings, deaths, being hit with baseball bats, car accidents, getting head bashed in, needing an ambulance... and so much more.

I have never met a woman who is so violent and aggressive.

https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/valerie-r-houghton-lmft-san-jose-2?select=NdVBqusdgAce5YrHsCciGg

Mike said...

Who needs this kind of violence?

How can she be so baffled at losing any business if she behaves like a violent criminal?

Mike said...

What you see is what you get. The only thing that I can appreciate about Valerie is her consistency. There is no margin for variation.

She had her sights set on my kids from the start. Valerie told me what exactly what would happen. I was told that the kids would be finished. It was eluded to that the molestation was not reportable when they said that mothers only get their kids taken away when drugs or alcohol are involved.

I was even warned that the mother of my youngest would be involved. And the other attorney said that I would never see my kids again when I told her to settle.

Valerie can say what she wants. She always deflects and shifts the blame - even in the face of the obvious.

This was how she wanted it go from the start.

Mike said...

If I hadn't have been tricked... If I hadn't have opened my mouth... I hadn't had stopped paying..... If I hadn't....

It goes on and on and on... This is how people like her cope. They try to reassign the blame.

I am an open minded person. I entertained some of these hypotheticals. But the pattern cannot be ignored. Everything that she said was a spot-on prediction.

Doing it twice solidified it.

So if she has done this to you, don't get caught up in the blame game. It wasn't your fault. You didn't deserve to get treated like that. What was done to your kids cannot be justified.

Mike said...

There was nothing to even gain by doing it twice.

You need to accept that this is who she is. Nothing that you did caused her to abuse you or your children.

And there was nothing that you could have done to prevent it. As soon as she is part of the picture, her behavior is like a runaway freight train.

Mike said...

She has no sense of responsibility. DARVO - deny (gaslight),attack, reverse victim and offender (guilt)

https://metro.co.uk/2020/06/13/guide-darvo-gaslighting-response-people-give-when-called-bad-behaviour-12847680/

This is her to a tee. She does whatever she wants. Said actions are typically misery producing.

If you confront her, the DARVO model comes into play.

Mike said...

I dealt with this to some extent with others.

But Valerie's DARVO reactions are to the extreme, especially on the attack front. Then to play victim when she "lost a lot of business" ... this is just bananas.

Mike said...

What value does she bring to anyone?

She only works to ruin children and parents.

I don't see how she is so smug about it. It has been 7 years of destruction. there hasn;t been a single positive accomplishment on her part.

Mike said...

There is no deviation. Her behavior is set in stone.

Even when she tries to hide, it is out in the open.

Mike said...

WHat a curse it was to end up with her.

Mike said...

what did it get me?

I am lying down typing in a car with atrophied testicles and damaged organs, as my children are being raped.

Mike said...

She didn;t do one thing good for me and my children.

just ruined all of our lives

Mike said...

almost eight years... and she has only puched me backwards

for nothing.. it didn't improve her own position one bit

she is incapable of pivoting... she only has one way of existing... rape.. destroy.. violent.. make miserable

there is nothing more to her

Mike said...

Destruction is all that she knows. If this was all about the business that she lost, there could have been a simple fix at the start. It would have been quiet.

The fact is that she will always pick misery. Once she does, there is no turning back. Valerie takes on an infallible persona.

So once she makes her predetermined choice, you have one of two choices: (1) You can let her do it. That means living with whatever miserable condition she has chosen for you. (2) You can be subjected to her next predetermined choice, more misery.

Some people have a shine of mystery. At least you can predict what happens next when you work with Houghton.

Mike said...

Reality just doesn't matter to her. You can have hard proof.

You can cite 1237 papers proving that gravity exists. Houghton will say that it doesn't, then force a document to be filed stating that there is no such thing. How the outside world see it, doesn't matter.

It also doesn't matter how that document might affect the lives of others. Houghton is completely oblivious to how others feel, so it doesn't faze her in the slightest if you lose your life or your children get raped.

Only that fraudulent document that was filed matters to her. As far as she is concerned, it determines reality.

Mike said...

She thinks of herself as a perfect being, infallible even when she does wrong.

A small child also makes a good comparison. Sometimes when they do something bad, they will do it again, just to show you. This type of analysis could shed light on her maturity level.

"ha hah ha... I didn't do anything wrong.. see... I did it again."

The difference is that most children wouldn't do it twice if you said, "oww, that hurt!" Most kids would feel bad.

If only I could put into words, how hurt my son is. Of course, I am discounting the physical and emotional harm that she did to me, as well as to other children. But if you just take into account the pain and agony that she caused my son, you would still get a good glimpse of who Houghton is.

Mike said...

She is out continuing to work towards harming my children.

There is absolutely no level of empathy for others. Take into consideration also why she assaults me. Seeing me in agony for my children doesn't even quell her violence. Most people set limits. Even your worst enemy would have some sort of mercy when exacting revenge because of a perceived slight. Having to choose between assault and letting your children get molested is just a horrendous condition to put a person in.

But that is what you get when Houghton is on your case. There is no empathy for anyone. If you don't agree with what she does, there also is no mercy.

Mike said...

Houghton takes a shit on the ground, then says "clean it up." She is the infallible queen, better than all the rest. Valerie can only feel this way if someone really bends over with a sponge and soap to clean her mess.

Why should she have to? Valerie would no longer be infallible. She would lose her status as the "best".

So she goes around, looking for people to shit on. "Come on. Hurry up and clean!" She has the whip ready to go, as you look at her in amazement. You ask yourself if she's serious. It will take a few whips to understand that she is dead serious.

Mike said...

You can't win. It would mean Houghton is the loser. So if your kids are getting raped and Houghton makes a demand to let it be, it would be challenge to duel for you to try to protect them.

There is no: He is concerned about his kids. His kids will be scarred.

---- That will never cross her mind ---

It would be more accurate: He just spit in my face by saying "no" to his children getting raped. He just started WW3. Fuck this guy. He is going to pay for this.

Mike said...

No one should have to have their lives ruined because they oppose their children being raped. It is a fundamental instinct to protect your children.

You would think that someone who claims to be a therapist would show a person mercy for expressing this reflex. Sadly, this is not the case.

Ms. Houghton will show you no mercy once she decides that she wants your children raped. You will be the "bad" person for interfering with her plans. Valerie acts like has been ordained by God to sex traffic children. If you interfere with her 'holy' activities, then you will experience her wrath.

Mike said...

Houghton does whatever she wants. It can be the most God awful thing, like getting your children raped. The response will always be the same. Laugh, then ignore.

It is simple. You can cry for your completely scarred children. Valerie will only laugh, then pretend like she never heard you.

Mike said...

It is such a basic and fundamental thing to be heard. You should be able to express that you don't want your children raped.

I guess that is how rape works in itself. A person who you don't even want in your life forces you to engage in activities that you want no part in. You cry and scream for them to stop. They just smile and keep going, like they never heard a word.

Mike said...

I don't see how she has been getting away with it for so long.

Give her your money. She is going to get your kids raped.

Then laugh,"She'll have fun... it's not rape if they want it..... she'll be pregnant at 15"

Of course, that will upset you. You will go out and try your best to stop it.

Now Valerie will have some additional things to laugh at. Your kidneys, liver, and other organs will be the new fodder.

She will never acknowledge the pain that she caused, only the giggles within.

Mike said...

You will say, "Pleases, please understand the pain that I am in." It would only be normal to try to get the other person to understand. Maybe you can talk some sense into them, getting them to stop.

It will be like talking to wall. Nothing comes back.

Mike said...

Valerie is sick. There is no other way to put it. You have to have some level of empathy and mercy to effectively socialize with others.

It is like the people who never feel physical pain. They keep breaking bones and injuring themselves because they are not getting the necessary feedback.

You can take it a step further. When those people injure themselves, it is not something that makes them laugh. This is the difference between those people and Valerie.

She is not only numb to your pain, she actually finds it all funny.

One her blog post she likens her behavior to pranks. You pain is just a funny joke to her. This is her obsession in life. Forget about court, legal arguments, and making life better.

There is nothing more reinforcing to her than causing pain to another person. It is so strong, that there is nothing that you can do to stop it.

What you don't want your kids raped? Now she has reason to cause more pain and create more laughter.

Mike said...

She is getting the kids raped and assaulting parents.

Then she plays it off like she is cool and smooth.

I think it all plays back to the laughter. These are reinforcing activities for her. They are pleasant and desired. You can't change that. This is what she seeks.

Mike said...

I love making people happy.

I love fixing problems and making life better. If you do this for the people around you, it makes your life better, as well.

Valerie makes her life better by making others miserable. It gives her pleasure in life.

She chalks it up.... if you did this.. or didn't do that... bunch of BS. This was how it was from day one.

I was listening to her, paying her, complying with her... but I still found myself in jail, while my son was being molested.

Mike said...

She keeps complaining about my writing this. But I offered to be quiet on so many occasions.

It's like the the person raping against your will. The person says be quiet. Compliance will mean nothing. It will keep happening.

It really doesn't matter too much what you do. She cannot change. Sure, it would be nice for her, but I think that the silence also throws gasoline into the fire.

Just like yelling and screaming might make the person get off sooner. Maybe you avoid some punches, though. But the end result will be rape and misery. It can be no other way with her.

Mike said...

These are the lyrics for a song called Lullaby, by The Cure, reminds me of dealing with Houghton.

On candy stripe legs the Spiderman comes
Softly through the shadow of the evening sun
Stealing past the windows of the blissfully dead
Looking for the victim shivering in bed
Searching out fear in the gathering gloom and
Suddenly
A movement in the corner of the room
And there is nothing I can do
When I realize with fright
That the Spiderman is having me for dinner tonight

Quietly he laughs and shaking his head
Creeps closer now
Closer to the foot of the bed
And softer than shadow and quicker than flies
His arms are all around me and his tongue in my eyes
Be still be calm be quiet now my precious boy
Don't struggle like that or I will only love you more
For it's much too late to get away or turn on the light
The Spiderman is having you for dinner tonight

And I feel like I'm being eaten
By a thousand million shivering furry holes
And I know that in the morning I will wake up
In the shivering cold

And the Spiderman is always hungry

bob32 said...

make sure to watch this video. Pause it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXf6uJWuYbk&t=60s
this is at the 1 min marker. Notice the face that she makes when she says that it is "not reportable" This is indicative of how she makes the kids feel. I honestly feel bad for her. She had to take a deep breath and avoid self pity.

bob32 said...

She obviously didn't like it by the look on her face.

But she forces other kids to do it.

bob32 said...

Valerie ruined all of my children's lives. It is unforgivable to force a child to be subjected to sexual abuse. They scarred forever. I don't see how she thinks so highly of herself. She's a child abuser.

Anonymous said...

Valerie sees plowing through every aspect of due process and terrorizing me in order to get all the kids raped as a "win". It is her "birthday" and "festive". Meanwhile the whole courthouse knows that she forced me into homelessness, sex trafficked my children, and destroyed my health.


She lives in a fantasy world. Valerie really believes that now what she did is okay.

Anonymous said...

It doesn't matter what you do. Valerie will one up you by getting violent, terrorizing, and with outright fraud. It is all about "winning". She destroys you for self esteem. She is not going to protect children from getting molested. That would make her a 'loser'.

Valerie needs to feel bigger than you and everyone else. There won't be any peaceful negotiation. There won't be a solution that involved your children being happy.

If Valerie isn't destroying, her self esteem will be deflated. Money is only icing. She has already ha quite a bit of it anyhow. This is about her feeling good about herself.

It is a "win" --- a competition. Why should she be the only one who is miserable? If the kids and everyone else are more miserable than her, then in comparison, she is the better one.

Anonymous said...

She will always take that path. Valerie couldn't help herself that second time. It is her addiction, her passion. Even if I didn't complain, Valerie would have found an excuse to do that again.

Anonymous said...

Even when I was quiet, she was having me poisoned. Valerie will ALWAYS pick the sadistic alternative. There wasn't even a need for it. The complaints were dropped.

The problem was that she "lost a lot of business." What was she to do. There was no one else to destroy. How was she going to build up her self esteem? How was she supposed to pass the time?

Anonymous said...

Every single judge knows what she did to my kids because I told them. But she sees some sort of redemption.

When you work with her,reality as you knew it no longer exists. If you don't act like her insane view of the world is real, it could cost you your life.

Anonymous said...

As I say all of this, I don't care about her insanity.

As much as she wants, Valerie can never get me to act like as if it is okay to get my kids raped.

She still threatens. At times she also offers money.

I am even more stubborn than her in that regard. My health is in tatters and live in car with no gas. There is nothing more important to me than protecting my kids.

She can't comprehend this. Valerie only knows destruction. She also knows that most everyone will take the money.

Anonymous said...

It is better to die young and a pauper, than to adopt her ideals. There is a reason that her wine collection is so large.

Anonymous said...

The best way to approach a situation with Ms. Houghton is to think of her as Joseph DeAngleo.

Ask yourself how you would approach any given situation if Mr. DeAngelo was on your case and had a tremendous amount of influence.

What would you do if Mr. DeAngelo said that your kids needed to be raped? Wouldn't you be scared of making him angry? Is Mr. DeAnglo someone that you would ever want to get into a dispute with?

What would happen if you tried to get rid of him? Would he stalk you and act like you really want him? Would he ever get violent? Does he follow the law? Does he ask permission before taking a life altering action? Does Mr. DeAngelo care about protecting children from rape? Would he work to make you happy? Is he a caring person?

Anonymous said...

Would you trust Joseph to make decisions for your children?

Anonymous said...

Behavior is both genetic and acquired through learning. When Valerie enters your case, it is like being exposed to the equivalent of behavioral herpes. There is no cure and has one of the worst stigmas.

You can be careful, always using condoms or abstaining. But with Valerie on your case, she doesn't give any choices. There are only demands, followed by punishment and fraud. She will force your children to live with her disease. It won't matter if two parents agree to not expose their children to such emotional scarring. Valerie will never leave. She will figure out a way to force herself on your family and expose her sickness to your children.

Anonymous said...

Valerie likes hearing parents begging for mercy on their children. She enjoys this type of sexual control. If you criticize it, she will get angry and violent. Everyone wants to be accepted for who they are. This is the conundrum that you will have when working with her.

How do you deal with someone who enjoys the control of getting kids raped, then gets violent when you try to stop it?

Anonymous said...

I would rather be poisoned by her, than let my children live in her filth.

I would rather sit in prison, than let her spread the sickness to my kids.

Anonymous said...

This is the worst piece of shit human being that you will ever meet. All the complaints were dropped. She had already let my children get molested. But Valerie Houghton wasn't done ruining my life. This piece of filth continued to stalk me and have me poisoned. Then she FORCED my daughter to be under the custody of a rapist.

She can't handle it if you have anything good in your life. You are not allowed to have health or happiness. This person is filthy.

I was quiet as a mouse, just like that filthy person asked. But she is SCUM OF THE EARTH.

Anonymous said...

She can always get money back, but this filthy animal can never remove the scars of my children, nor give me back my health.

She sees you as nothing but a target to abuse.

Anonymous said...

It was OVER, you SHIT HUMAN BEING.

Maybe you could make some sort of an excuse for poisoning me while I was complaining.

But you never stopped destroying my life.

Anonymous said...

She blames the world for what she's done.

Instead of apologizing, Valerie gets angry and violent. She doesn't stop ruining your life until YOU apologize to HER.

Anonymous said...

Valerie,

It will NEVER happen.

Anonymous said...

She did something so disgusting to my kids. Instead of an apology, she punishes everyone else.

Valerie is angry at me for simply saying what she did.

What she did to my kids just flies over her head. It wasn't so bad. According to her, they wanted it.

Then why is she so mad?

Anonymous said...

Valerie Houghton is filth that would get every child raped if she could.

Anonymous said...

But dont tell her that. Valerie thinks that she is the cream of the crop, not the rotting trash on top of a landfill.

Anonymous said...

Valerie is only capable of destruction and misery. She is a one trick pony.

Only a masochist should consider retaining her.

Anonymous said...

There is no real function to her behavior, other than to make you and your children miserable.

She is nothing but a scummy child abuser.

Anonymous said...

Only a filthy person would do that to a two year old.

Anonymous said...

Valerie now indicates that she has a right to defend herself.

She forced my kids to be molested, then "defended" herself by taking my health, making me homeless, and doing the same to my youngest daughter.

What a piece of shit she is. Valerie just can't accept it. It has nothing to do with defense. She just keeps doing the same shitty thing to people that she always has.

Anonymous said...

This piece of trash has no limits or boundaries.

Anonymous said...

She took away my health and forced me into homelessness.

Now Valerie says that if I let the pedophilia continue, she will leave me alone and let me get a job.

She will never change. This filthy person will destroy your family, too.

Anonymous said...

A monster is someone who (1) has a large appetite for cruelty and (2) never backs down.

Anonymous said...

I feel bad for her own kids. We all take our work home.

Anonymous said...

What else can you expect from pedo trash?

She just keeps doing the same thing over and over and over.

Hire her.

Anonymous said...

Houghton is homicidal pedo trash

Anonymous said...

You won't meet a bigger piece of trash than Valerie Houghton.

She doesn't care about anyone. All she wants to do is abuse your children, make you miserable and steal your money.

Anonymous said...

She flaunts all those degrees like it means something.

The truth is that she is a shitty criminal. It's all a big joke.

Anonymous said...

If an attorney refers you to her, fire the attorney right away. They are trying to scam you.

No one wins with Valerie.

Anonymous said...

I don't understand why anyone would let her near their children. It would be like letting Jerry Sandusky babysit. You might as well smear dog shit over all your kids.

Anonymous said...

This is a person with no sense of responsibility or remorse. She will put your kids into a situation of sexual abuse, then double down by doing it again.

She is so FILTHY that she will poison you to make it happen.

Anonymous said...

What a piece of garbage she is.

I wouldn't let her have a single conversation with my kids, if it were up to me. But this filthy person doesn't care.

She forces herself to have a relationship with my kids.

Anonymous said...

she wants everyone to accept that pus covered vaginas are clean

Valerie did it a second time to prove her point

she is so indignant that she will poison you if you disagree...

Anonymous said...

Her head is full of ROTTING GARBAGE.

That filthy old woman must know what it feels like. She just doesn't care about children getting raped.

Anonymous said...

She acts so indignant.

Maybe Valerie thinks that she should be on the Child Abuse Prevention Council. What a pile of trash she is.

Anonymous said...

it likely happened to sick houghton

now she spreading her filth onto all the kids

Anonymous said...

get jerry sanducky as your new babysitter

hire Valerie Houghton

Anonymous said...

she is gong to clear her name by squeezing out more of her onto my kids and taking my health

THis is the most filtyh of people that you will ever meet.

Anonymous said...

Valerie will force Sandusky to be your babysitter, then laugh about it. They will "have fun!"

Anonymous said...

Valerie is a child predator by definition. I never thought in a million years that this would happen when I met her. The licenses threw me for a loop.

Don't be naive like me. Once she starts abusing your kids, she won't ever backtrack.

Anonymous said...

She ruins your life for sport. There were times when there was no reason to harm me, but she did it anyhow.

Valerie is like a rabid dog on the loose.

Anonymous said...

Once she heard about my son getting molested, Valerie was in firm control.

That filthy old woman was going to make sure that it stayed hidden. She was going to inflict her sickness on my family.

Anonymous said...

THe misery never stopped. After she took them away, she continued to mess with my life.

DIRTY OLD WOMAN HAD ME JAILED WHILE MY SON WAS BEING MOLESTED.

Anonymous said...

FAMILY OF CRIMINALS.

Anonymous said...

I can't be the only who was poisoned.

Anonymous said...

Only a mentally ill person behaves in such a manner.

Be careful. Even the person who gives her money will pay a price.

Anonymous said...

Would you pet a dog that is foaming at the mouth?

Would you invite said dog to enter your home?

Would you let it be near your children?

Anonymous said...

As you cry out for your children, this dirty old woman will only be laughing. She gets off on not only their suffering, but also your own.

Anonymous said...

Only a drunk/ druggy would sex traffic a child in order to absolve their previous sex trafficking.

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Anonymous said...

A sick person is using my email account to write emails. Valerie is scum. She has no boundaries.

All she does is scam everyone and ruin lives.

Anonymous said...

There is no one there. Why does anyone talk to her?

CLIENT: Valerie, my kids are being molested. Please do something.

VALERIE: I need $80,000 worth of gold coins. If you say anything, I will kill you.

CLIENT: Please, Valerie. Don't do this to my kids. They don't deserve this.

VALERIE: It's not rape if they want it.

CLIENT: My 13 year old son is in incredible pain. The youngest is two.

VALERIE: I don't care.

CLIENT: please don't do this.

VALERIE: Shut the fuck up. You are getting charges filed if you don't. I teach you to keep your mouth closed. My child, my rules. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want.

[noise in background] gnk gnk gnk gnk gnk gnk ngk gnk gnk gnk

Anonymous said...

The whole scam would have been forgotten.

But there was one more child to ex traffic and more health to ruin.

Anonymous said...



CLIENT: Why are you doing this to my family?

HOUGHTON: Your kids are mine. If I want them to turn tricks, then that's what they'll do.

CLIENT: I already gave you tens of thousands in cash. You haven't done anything for me.

HOUGHTON: That's because I am your master. You work for me. Now get the fuck out of here and go back to work.

CLIENT: I don't want you on my case anymore.

HOUGHTON: If you think that this is bad, just wait and see what happens after you fire me.

Anonymous said...

"I am Valerie Houghton, the dominatrix pedo of all the children in this county. All the children are my sex toys to do with as I wish..."

Anonymous said...

"If I want to, I will drink their blood there is nothing that you can do to stop me. Try telling someone. See what happens. I love seeing you beg and cry. It makes me even wetter."

Anonymous said...

Valerie can say whatever she wants - she let them get molested because of X.. because of Y... it doesn't mean anything.

Nothing else adds up. This is what she is into.

Anonymous said...

You will need to accept that she has the power to be the dirtiest of pedos. She can really get away with smearing her filthy vagina wherever she wants.

I have begged the DA to help me. He won't even send someone to check up on my kids. I have spent 5 days in jail because I refuse to give in. Now I have a warrant for doing the same.

This person is the most powerful lowlife that you will ever meet.

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